This is the part that makes me feel torn because these black communities do exist. The PG county, Baldwin Hills, outside of Atlanta communities are evidence of black people creating these spaces. But they are middle to upper class enclaves. Is that success on a microlevel okay? Or is a certain guilt expected because…

"Nothing will change" is the appropriate sentiment. As much as we talk about how image shouldn't matter if either of these women looked like a young Candy Carson we wouldn't care if they were naked, conservative Christians, or illiterate.

She goes about it in an entitled fashion and ignores that Frank tries to help her all the time if he can. Remember the UN Ambassadorship? That was a ridiculous reach and she acts like Frank wants her to fail or something.

My experience has been that women tend to fight for the last word because they want things to be orderly on their terms. Women want whats best but often overstep because they dont usually consider the source of mens happiness. Understood autonomy. Men fight fervently to be right, because they want women to understand.…

Is it weird that I'm intrigued by Trump like a trainwreck? This has got to be some kind of conspiracy right. I find it hard to believe he's a racist he's just got the glow so he's just wildin an it's somehow still working?

*Cough* Non white Latino.

I'm supposed to be a Millennial Bernie supporter, but frankly I find Hillary or Bernie to be cool. I'm not enthralled or disgusted by either so whoever wins has my vote. Shrug.

I'm not sure how much of this applies here. I'm thinking about a certain strength of convinction that women seem to have in their petty. Not necessarily that theyre wild and uncontrollable. I do think men are more emotional and it's usually deep unresolved sadness. Men want peace with petty and women want order.

Too savage. She obviously hates this man.

As for pettiness in particular, I'm just saying I believe women tend to have more of a stake in their own correctness and making sure their ideas are understood and acted upon. While men tend to place more stake on the overall maintenance of an easy going environment.

In all seriousness, I think women tend to be more steadfast and passionate about things so there's a disconnect as to why men don't understand why they're right about whatever the beef is of the day. While men don't understand why you care so much, the game is on.

This is the absolute truth. The key to the game is to look at that picture on the wall and try to remember where you got that sweater. Or take inventory of all the books you haven't finished on your bookshelf for ten minutes. You basically have to get your buddhist on and disassociate.

Round 79 of VSB Battle of the sexes has begun!

#3 is why I don't go lol

Naw. Gotta have both.

The key to eating healthy is accepting sadness. Just chomp down on those leaves and weep.

I know from from my days at Morehouse, the #1 DJ for a good period was none other than DJ White Mike.

sounds like a new revenue stream! Gotta get the VSB dating app popping.

I'm potato salad agnostic.

I mean in a communal setting tho. It's harder to make it a social outing with friends. Thatn to just be interested in it.