Maybe talk to someone about that depression? If you feel broken, therapy probably good way to sort through those feelings.

That always how my love life worked: "when it rains, it immediately stops raining!"

Me have actually been in that exact situation. Me had co-worker who seemed perfect for me, and she happen to come into life at same time me was having issues (or more issues than usual) with marriage. Me ended up getting "stick with your wife" fortune cookie and chose that path. And often wondered whether that was…

Personally, nothing helped anxieties and negative view of self like realizing someone wanted to sleep with me.

El Camino Royale was great one. Also, how about Never Say Chevy Again?

Live and Let Diesel
Man With Golden Bumper
Moonroofraker
For Your Rims Only
A View To A Grille
Licence and Registration To Kill
Tomorrow Never Drives
Road Is Not Enough

Someone reminded me recently that Macho Man Randy Savage died on same day some idiot predicted Rapture. At least, me thought that guy was idiot. But now it all make sense. Macho Man was only one worthy enough to be raptured, and rest of us are left behind in nightmarish hellscape.

Someone once said that when non-white people are poor, it because they lazy criminals, and when white people are poor, it government's fault. There very ingrained mentality with certain segment of population to look anywhere else, no matter how implausible, for cause of own troubles.

Me could not disagree more strongly. Putting lunatic ranting about chemtrails on national television instead of gutter in front of bus station where he belong only serve to legitimize him and his ideas. People keep using Milo as example, but Simon & Schuster only drew line at pedophilia — when he was anti-semitic…

It really not that different than Fox news. Just replace "chemtrails" with "BUT HER EMAILS!!!" and MREs with "ask your doctor if Validify is right for you!"

Yes. It called Drudge Report.

And it involve pyramid with big floating eye on top!

Oh, me not take it that way at all. Me was just saying that counseling has been on mind. And time is honestly factor — me not sure exactly when this hypothetical counseling would take place, but we have to work something out.

Me have already looked into insurance, and fortunately me covered through work. Me had told her me wanted counseling last year, but she was still mourning her dad and planning to sell her childhood home, and asked not to have to deal with relationship issues on top of that, and me respected that. But it probably long…

Sorry to hear you also having problems. And astonished (and very jealous) to hear sex life got better after having kid!

We do both occasionally make tacit acknowledgement of that. "Me know we have some issues, but…" We both aware other one not happy. We just have to break out of habit of avoiding conflict and preserving veneer of civility at all costs. Your suggestion in other comment, about spending little bit of time together, is…

We did recently had conversation about childcare, and by conversation me mean argument. She scolded me in front of kids for how me handled something. We had long talk about how me hate being treated like me not know how to raise kids when me spend more time with them, and how me hate being talked down to like…

Me honestly not know. Big part of problem is, we both work constantly. Typical day is, me take kids to school and go to work, she start work hour later and leave (at least) hour later. So me pick kids up from after-school, make dinner, make sure they do homework, she usually come home at some point during dinner, me…

What me have consistently heard is that divorce not worst thing for kids, instability is. If they suddenly move away, or move several times, or if mommy has string of boyfriends coming and going, that bad. But parents who are civil and keep regular routine not automatically damaging.

Problem is, neither of us are saying let's talk, and we both know this is problem, and we still both not do it. We both have strong instinct to keep peace and not cause drama or tension, which in theory is good thing for relationship. And me not necessarily conflict-averse, but me not want conflict for sake of…