Funded my partner's full sleeve, difficult to explain, just find it beautiful. Some of his tattoos have personal meaning so there's that as well. Maybe its about more personalisation? Expressing yourself, making your body more you. Its a very personal thing for him, nobody else ever gets to see these tattoos, the…

Such forum's exist? More like a married people dating website. No, it doesn't say anything to that effect but its a good point as I am in otherways adventurous and that's clear once you start talking to me so I'll keep an eye that I'm not giving of that vibe. I'm pretty clear straight away that X= physical intimacy…

Fantastic advice thank you - of too ponder hot ways to describe vanilla sex.

That's reassuring to know thanks - definitely fit that description - in return not busy at all.

Thanks everybody, really useful comments, definitely figuring out that I need to start talking hot, never done that before, I am really behind on the learning curve!

I'm female in my mid thirties here and I'm getting laid again by having sanctioned affairs with married men (History: hadn't had much in the way of sex before I fortunately/unfortunately met a fantastic guy at 19 - who wasn't that enthusiastic or good at talking about sex, but we still had a great time till it petered…