So I just want to thank everybody for the advice re: losin' it that I got in the comments section last week. "Netflix and chill" turned out to be what I thought it was, and while we didn't quite get the home run, we both hit a solid triple - which is not bad for a guy who had never played baseball before. We talked…

Yeah, the other half of the impulse to tell her is, you know, "don't get your hopes up".

So, looking for some advice. I haven't had sex, and I'm old enough that it's weird that I haven't. This seems to be about to change, so I ask you - how and when does one broach this subject with a partner? I feel that it's a big enough deal that I should let her know, but it's kind of an awkward subject to bring up.