i was at the mall with my gf, she was in some random other store like express or something and I was gonna meet her by the exit. She said 'ok I'm coming'

NOT THE ETHNICS!

To me all this really boils down to is: "It makes me uncomfortable when I have to think about people of color as people" and of course "This is reverse racism, now white people can't get 95% of all roles ever."

Modern feminism has already caused a global shortage of tiny violins. If you get your hands on one, let me know.

"I have a problem with representing the world as it truly is, rather than how I see it in my limited interactions with people who look like me and are just like me." - idiot woman.

"All-female real estate brokerage founded in the 1970s."

As a DV/SA advocate we sometimes are used in these cases. I haven't been involved in one yet, . but I worry because sometimes the earmarking for funding is really strict and leaves these people in yet another bad situation. I would really like it if there was more funding that went towards services for those who have…

sounds about right, MsMenstruation

This made me cry?

Those sort of hangups are shockingly common given how high the rate of sexual assault is...I don't think these guys realize they're ruling out an enormous portion of women if they're unwilling to date someone who has ever been abused or assaulted. It's huge red flag to me both because my assault is something that…

Oh god! How many people have died?!

This is true, but I'd also warn against a couple spending so much time with friends that they barely spend time one on one. In my last relationship I was frustrated because he and I spent a lot of time with his friends, especially with his very special female friend, and it was nice but he and I barely went on dates…

I agree with this completely. My husband has a lot of friends who are women, and he really wants me to hang out with and like them too. Because he includes me in the friendship and because these friends (FOR THE MOST PART) are nice to me, I don't feel jealous or like he's trying to pull anything. He's just a social…

I'm not really a jealous person. My husband has a LOT of friends that are women, and over the years, there's only really been one that I haven't been okay with—but that wasn't because I was jealous of her, it was because she was an asshole.

I have no idea what this guy's deal or endgame is but it sounds like he's being a real dick.

What's wrong with giving ultimatums? It may not be the best way to keep a relationship going, but they're totally fair if they're accurate reflections of how you feel. If they're not accurate and you're issuing them to get a specific response, that's bad, but stating what you want and need and what you'll do if your…

Please do it sooner rather than later. I was in a dead-end relationship (see my story elsewhere in this thread) and kept it going WAY longer than it should because I didn't want to go through the pain of a breakup. Should've just done it and been over it, but instead I wasted YEARS on that asshole.

UGH. This post and last night's pissing contest have dredged up a lot of things I'd forgotten about from the second LTR I had. Dude had so many female friends, and while a lot of them were cool to me, there were SO MANY inappropriate moments. Like the female coworker he used to hang out with all the time (and make fun…

I had a really good guy friend, and ended up living with his girlfriend when she was looking for a roommate (and I needed somewhere to live). BIG MISTAKE.

What if you're not angry at your partner's friend but angry at your partner because he WANTS you to act like a jealous weirdo about his female friend? Hmm?