You need to have really hard evidence. If you accuse [someone] of something, show the evidence.

I keep journals and diaries, some calendars if it was a particularly eventful year.

I’m so confused by “not going to ruin his life”. This is a job. So, employed white guy not getting dream job= ruining his life?

That was my take away. 

Thank you. It was a long time ago now, and the kids and I have moved on and moved 700 miles away, life is good. :) 

My ex strangled me until I blacked out. I called the police. They put him in handcuffs and in the police car, and asked me how long this had been going on. Nobody starts with this. I was crying and scared of what i would do now, with no husband and two little boys. And, the officer told me that it always escalates. If…

Nope, naturally I have dark brown hair. 

I’m one of those people who felt her c-section. Or most of it, I eventually passed out from the pain. It’s amazing I had another kid.

Also, I would like to think, if I see him on the news with the potential to influence legislation for decades, I would tell a lot more people about how he is not a nice guy.

Why is it so hard for so many to believe that people aren’t bad/good every moment of every day? If all the bad guys walked around kicking kittens and littering in between the mug shots for rapes, THEY WOULDN’T GET AWAY WITH IT SO OFTEN.

My water broke with my son on Christmas Eve. We were staying with my parents for the holiday. I told my then husband that my water broke, but I was feeling fine. So, we woke everybody up, they unwrapped the presents from us, gave us ours, then we headed to the hospital, and everyone else carried on with the holiday. 

I have a pair of oxblood colored, chunky heel Dr Martens that I wait all summer to break out again.

My sister was insistent that she couldn’t drive stick because of hills. One day after she babysat my son, I told my husband I’d take her home. We took his manual ‘88 Grand Prix, and I made her drive. I told her “It was a $300 car, you aren’t going to hurt it. But you are gonna drive it.” Directed her to take the…

I had an abortion at 23. I already had two children. I am certain my life, and the lives of my 2 children are much better than they would have been had I continued the pregnancy. 

Lloyd argued that women shouldn’t have sex if they’re not prepared to give birth

I LOVE old dogs. The only reason I haven’t brought home all four 10 yr old dogs at the shelter is because we’ve already lost 2 dogs this year and I don’t think my kids’ hearts can take it. I’d hate to think people would make assumptions when I’m just trying to help. 

I had a pet, and she passed away, then one of my foster dogs died the week after I brought him home. Both dogs were pit bull mixes, both had cancer, one was 12 and ones 7. Between those 2 dogs (4 month span) I had several foster dogs, and was able to get them each adopted very quickly. So, I’m sure it looked like I…

It’s become a joke in our house, because once I told my husband everything he did was annoying. He was stupid, our house was stupid, his face was too facey (All said basically to make a point about how much i was blowing things out of proportion, when there wasn’t really an issue.) So, now when I’m being emotional or…

After I ignored him on online sites for months, we ended up deciding to go out. Our first meet up, I went to his house, he opened the door, and I just remember thinking “Oh, there you are.” It took him a little longer to come around, but, we’ve been married a decade or so now. I don’t believe in love at first sight,…

Yeah, a local story had a man comment that “Only fat women ever act like this, they crave attention from men because they can’t get it any other way.”