why the fuck does it matter, huh? because you think finding out someone is trans justifies killing them? “oh no i was so surprised she was trans that i just HAD to kill her. i couldn’t just leave, no. i had to shoot her down in the street like a dog. i’m innocent, thanks!”

honestly, i work in education and get a very different vibe when men vs. women or poc insist on being called doctor. for women and poc, i always get the impression they request it because everyone assumes they’re not as educated as they are and they’re tired of people diminishing their accomplishments. they’re usually…

yeah, i’ve had friends who had issues with bc too. the pill that works for me might not work for them. they’d say things like all the women in their family were sensitive to it, they tried one and their mood went crazy, their blood pressure shot up on their old one.... shockingly those things were fixed by trying a…

ok, so good job pontificating forever off of someone saying a single thing to you. yo, i’ve met a fuckton of r/iamverysmart nonsense dudes, and i still don’t know if i’ve ever met someone who likes the sound of their own voice as much as you. this post is a mess.

girl please tell me you know the difference between a football and a basketball

I also find that white girls employed by all my local Sephoras don’t seem to get undertones for anyone darker than a MAC NC15. I’m Asian, so yeah I have gold undertones, but my color is generally more neutral. I do my shade matching myself because these bitches’ll just plaster on banana-yellow foundations that oxidize …

“I don’t like popular things so therefore my taste is superior.” Have fun being sooooooo painfully cool.

question though... is any vegetable/other food acceptable mixed into mac and cheese? fuck kale, but i like mushrooms and honestly don’t think i’d mind some of those. i’m sometimes tempted to put a little diced, sauteed onion in the cheese sauce when i’m making it.... though it does start feeling more like a casserole a…

yeah all these dudes have done is show how fucking shallow they are. most folks don’t love the look of people who obviously had work done. having features that are overly perfect looks like you fell head-first into the uncanny valley. but clearly that’s what these dudes are into. physical perfection to the point of…

My fiance went to the doctor for the first time in five years and got his wisdom teeth out (something he avoided for at least a decade) because I kept bugging him about it. For real, some men would not take care of themselves without someone reminding them that they’re adults who need to do this. Lord don’t even get…

The only thing I can come up with is that when it comes to self-hatred, women turn it inward, as in “I’m the problem. If I weren’t so ugly/fat/stupid men would like me.”

Really though. My fiance went to private middle/high school for the ultra-rich, but his best friend there was a scholarship kid from a middle-class family. So what would that mean for those kinds of kids who have already proven themselves and are succeeding? Hell, my parents grew up stealing food to survive in abject…

Not defending him; don’t care enough. Just saying he’s not really a sexual predator, and I find it insulting to people who’ve actually been harassed and assaulted and coerced to claim that his stupid shit rises to that level.

Yeah about that... any accounts I’ve read online of that nonsense sound like a huge mess where both parties are shit. It hurt me to read about something that petty and stupid. Idk what the fuck happened with them; they both sound like idiots who didn’t understand what the other one was looking for. But nowhere did I…

I live in DC and there have been plenty of times I wanted to complain about a Metro worker doing some shit, but NEVER would I think to take that public. I’ve only ever considered emailing WMATA directly to mention something, but even that felt like too much. Because did I care enough to cost someone their job over…

False. Yes, James Charles is shitty, and a lot of people have disliked him for some time due to his stupid, selfish actions. But pause in your freak out for a sec. Has he assaulted anyone? Even with the straight men he pursued, did he ever approach harassment levels of aggression? Did he keep pursuing them even after…

It honestly just sounds like he messaged some dudes or hit on dudes he knew were straight or were in straight relationships. Like, yeah it’s a little shitty and probably annoying for those dudes, but I’ve yet to hear of him doing or saying anything truly atrocious? Like, I’ve been hit on and creeped on way worse by…

you having fun outing yourself? also, why are you proud of that?

And now I feel bad because I always thought it was Zach Galifianakis

Please also check out Trust Women! They have clinics in Wichita, Oklahoma City, and Seattle, and they are focused on bringing clinics to high-need areas, often in deeply red states. Met their founder recently, and she’s truly lovely. They also do a lot of state-level advocacy work, which we can now plainly see is…