Am I the only one who has a real soft sport for Xanadu? I loved the premise, Gene Kelly gave what for me was a really heartbreaking performance, the soundtrack is great...

It’s been so long since I participated in a SNS.

HW signed The ADA, raised taxes on the wealthy, and a new Clean Air Act,

I’m a black, disabled, queer woman from the south and I don’t resent a fucking to-the-manor-born journalist one bit. He hasn’t taken a thing from me and, with this gig, has given so very much back to me. Hush.

Every time a white person tells me to go back to Africa, I ask to be sent to Seychelles or Tanzania, since they have some of the most beautiful beaches in the world..but ignorant white ppl wouldn’t know that.

And exactly WHO is buried in Grant’s tomb? We may never know.

I have a reason to celebrate! After 5 years of waiting for The Asshole to fix the divorce papers he wanted me to sign, I went ahead and filed for divorce myself, back in June. This week, the judge signed the decree after The Asshole didn’t respond to the notice he was sent.

“But stop inviting everybody to the motherfucking cookout. Love yourself and respect your blackness a little bit more.”

CHRIS IS THE BEST HEMSWORTH!! NO OTHER OPINION IS VALID!

Guess who just earned herself a 3-day trip to a fancy SPA, courtesy of your husband?

Crate train them ASAP, the younger you teach them that their crate is “their” space and reward them with rawhides, the better.

It’s my birthday!! ITS MY BIRTHDAY! My dad keeps asking me what I want for it, but I don’t really want anything. So - what’s the best gift you’ve either got or given?? I got bose wireless headphones last year that I am obsessed with. Best gift I’ve ever given was a really fancy traveling backgammon set to an at the…

Geezalou, what a week. So, last week the dryer stopped working for the second time in its very short life here. It is, of course, out of warranty for this second go-round. More on that in a moment.

WUT. No. This is not a thing. I refuse to live in a world where hygiene is a homosexual slur.

So I went back to my bariatric doctor the week (continuing to lose weight but very, very slowly) and got a prescription for Saxenda, an injectable weight-loss drug wih an excellent safety profile.

Evening all! I mentioned a few months back that someone had asked me out and I’d said ‘Not yet’ because I was dealing with a breakup. The last few months have been incredibly confusing and I’ve felt he was blowing hot and cold constantly and naturally the moment I decide that fuck it, I am done being messed around, he…

Here’s my sweet boy in his new crate:

I stood up to my dad last night. I STOOD UP TO MY DAD! He’s been hounding me, he hates the job I have, for some unknown reason. I used to be an attorney, I still am, but don’t practice. He wants me to have a job that I’m passionate about, but still make six figures. According to him, my sister, 8 years younger than I…

I love therapy. It has made what would otherwise have been a hellish summer and fall significantly easier to deal with. My anxiety is SO MUCH BETTER than it was this time last year with fewer stressers (thanks for those, Trump).

This week I had an ultrasound and my little fetus is the right size and looking perfect and never. stops. moving. :D