@miss.terious Umm. No. You can get him in court. As a society we don’t progress healthily if we ever feel violence is a justified answer.

@washionfore Why did you feel the need to hit him rather than talking to him about what was bothering you?

@Jiboo Right. Unless you are defending yourself hitting someone isn’t going to be healthy or right. Next time you are in relationships like that try to notice the toxicity that you now know. It will save you alot of hurting and frustration to end the relationship then. But always try to use communication to do that…

How long ago before posting this did you move in with him? Sounds like it was pretty recent. All people deserve the same equal treatment and if your boyfriend is lovely and wonderful then he will probably never hit you back. You should give him the same respect.

@whoneedsslight Communication is always better than violence. Also do you think if he was in your position it would be justified for him?