Nice family restaurant.

Why do people keep thinking I said it's only about looks? I'm generalizing my experience studying profiles for years and sharing my findings on the quirks of the genders, even if it sounds like stereotyping. Why would anyone say it's only about looks? If it was... I'd be dating a real Scumbag Stacy. I study a person's…

Why would you say more pressure? What would make it "more"?

Now if only my PS4 version could do this...

Like I said I know. Right now I'm just pissed I can't edit the damn topic or even delete it. I just have to deal with the pool of crap until it blows over.

I know, though some girls do work out and run to look better, most importantly feel better and do it for their health. I love people who are a little fat because they're always really happy and usually more friendly. Sadly not physically attracted to them, but socially attracted to them.

As OP here, I'm just stating what guys and girls average preferences are from observing. I can't believe the ridiculous heat, maybe it should've been worded better. But you are right, people need to be happy the way they are.

I haven't had a hard time dating or finding people that much, fyi. It's called venting on the internet about things that bug you a little. I think you're mistaking superficial with preference, everyone has their own. To pretend otherwise and feel superior about it is what's ridiculous.

No, because I actually date people I like. What gives you the impression I don't?

I understand what it's like to be a female "on a dating site" (for the second time already). I had an active female profile for months, reading messages and getting sent dick pics. What else is there to understand online-wise? It's shit, women to have it rough, I'm not denying that. I'm just saying that men have it…

The only thing I disagree with there is that I have really strange ideas... actually scratch that, I always do. But not on the claim that women... (or anybody) can't control their weight. I agree with you that they don't have to, and they shouldn't feel as if they have to. But by you saying they don't have to, you're…

I can agree with that

Of course. But the timing has to be right to ask.

You're trying to put words in my mouth, boy.

Way to miss the point.

There is no victim mode or entitlement here, why is everyone getting that impression? I'm only stating what I've generally noticed while on a dating site for a few years. Like an explorer in a safari. I should've worded myself differently because I'm getting too much negative feedback for the controlling weight thing.…

In terms of what it's like on a dating site? Yes.

...When did I say a woman can't have her own standards? How is me saying "it's annoying" translate to "can't"? If you can't go more than 50 messages with a guy you're really interested in, then you must not really be all that interested in him to begin with. I have fun casual conversations that can go on and on, if…

Actually I'm pretty average, I've had plenty of dates and I don't send creepy sex notes. Thanks for joining the conversation though...

Translation: I didn't read the whole comment thread and I want to say something, so I'll make it negative because I want to assume this guy doesn't know what he's talking about.