I think verbal abuse can be worse in some ways. Its easier to tell that a thrown punch isn't your fault. Verbal abuse is WAY too easy to misconstrue as deserved.

Says who exactly?

Note that he said "healthy relationship", so why should it grate? If your husband was beating you (and I'm sincerely sorry that he did), then I'd say "healthy relationship" does not describe your marriage in the slightest.

I didn't think your post was rude in the slightest. All these people complaining about your lack of sensitivity need to untie themselves from their knot of superiority. Those are legitimate questions for someone who posts an opinion piece about divorce after 9 months of marriage. Every marriage I've seen that ended…

I think in many cases, marriage is like alcohol. It amplifies their worst characteristics.

When I got divorced after 7 years of marriage, my friends, co-workers and family scattered like I'd been touched by a deadly disease. Came pretty close to suicide, I found myself so goddamn alone. The only way I kept myself afloat what by hiking Rocky Mountain National Park every weekend.

I'm guessing that if you aren't willing to answer questions about a divorce, maybe you don't write and publish an article about said divorce? If I were discussing underwear with a stranger, I certainly wouldn't begrudge them their curiosity about the color of my own. But what a wonderfully condescending response.…

I really don't think Renakitty is saying "fuck people's right to privacy". I think we're all pretty much agreed that breaking into someone's iCloud, Dropbox, Office365 or Box account is wrong.