NO YOU'RE EITHER A SLUT OR THE VIRGIN MARY THOSE ARE THE ONLY OPTIONS

Stop that critical thinking this instant! Humans are born one way and that way determines their behavior for the rest of their lives. Now if you'll excuse me, I've got some slutty babies to yell at.

You're right. It's a combination of the factors you list, I think. The couple of times we hooked up weren't that great. The night we slept together I woke up at 3 AM to him working on his laptop! He was sending an email to his boss. I had the sense we wouldn't work as a couple from the second date, which was…

Good point. I've been in a monogamous relationship for five years now, but when I was single, I was furiously racking up bedpost notches like I was going to earn an extra life if I got 100. I wasn't keeping my penis in its original plastic while I killed time waiting for The One.

Agreed. I've been both. :P

Adorable!

I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but i think you married a woman. ;)

It's not necessarily that he JUST wanted to have sex with you. It's entirely possible that he went on those initial dates with you thinking that there was some actual romantic potential and then, for whatever reason, decided that you two wouldn't work out as a couple. Most guys will stick around for at least one or…

I like this guy's line of thinking. Sounds like mine, if I can ever be creative enough sometimes.

Smiler argues that most young men would rather have emotional and physical intimacy with one partner than rack up a slough of numbers on the bedpost.

They must have forgotten to tell my boyfriend too.

Most girls...no wait, ALL GIRLS I've been with expect sex as part of a relationship. It's not a guy thing.

There ya go. Guys don't just want sex, but they do want it above all else. Sex without a relationship? Great. Relationship without sex? Meh.

Well, in that example they're choosing immediate sex over the POSSIBILITY, of unknown likelihood, of a long term relationship. They don't know any more than you do whether you're long term compatible or have a fulfilling future ahead of you.

Not to be unkind Katie, but maybe they just didn't want a long term relationship with you and decided to cut their losses.

Men just want sex? Somebody forgot to tell my husband.

I know, right? That is less than 3 per year.

116? That's all to get you rep in the 18th century? Weak.