"Part of growing up is learning how to cope with that internally, instead of expecting the world to change and rise up to your personal standards or opinions."

Firstly, sticking with your wife is pretty important because if not why did you get married? I can understand getting a divorce because you no longer get along, but that wasn't the case.

Oh man, I'm so glad to know that I make you vomit. Thanks for making my day that much brighter!

Okay, nobody is offended by you not being attracted to larger people. It's just your vernacular that is offensive. How do you not understand this?

*eye-roll*

Then why do you keep defensively saying 'You can't make me date fat dudes if I don't want to! I shouldn't have to!' when no-one actually said that you should?

Seriously, did you not learn anything from the reactions to your (near identical) post in response to Laura's online dating piece? This is bizarre. You have to be trolling.

"I'm just being honest. Perhaps I should have just said "I have to be attracted to him" but isn't that a basic universal truth in dating??? Has anyone ever actually gotten romantically involved with someone who they find unattractive??" Uh yeah it's a universal truth, which is exactly why everyone thinks it's so weird…

No one is asking you to 'be into' fat dudes. They're asking you not to graphically state that you find them to be disgusting. The fact that you can't grasp this is bizarre.

I'm not asking you to lower your standards. I wouldn't want to put the fat men of the world through that.

I haven't done online dating myself, but I've perused enough of the websites to know that it's depressing as well, because of the comfort zone thing, and some weird internalization that Disney said pretty people are the best people, therefore it must be true.

I feel that you should know that my experience has been that fat guys are better in the sack, because they're putting more effort into it.

My point was, confidence is indistinguishable from arrogant prick when you first meet someone sometimes. The confident guy I dated who was an asshole to me was seen as a super-nice guy in general, just a terrible boyfriend (I should have talked to his dozen or so exes and stayed friends).

Thank you. Just started online dating and I think it is crystal clear, based on the endless profiles I have read, that most people have no intention of setting their pinky toe out of their comfort zone and have bought hook line and sinker into what the media tells us all we should be. If I have to read any more about…

You're welcome!

Thank you for saving me the time to write this myself. Why continuously put this mean crap out there?

She actually wrote pretty much that exact thing on a different article recently. It's bizarre. I usually don't spend that much time thinking about sex that I don't want to have. Maybe it's a secret fetish that both excites and disgusts her?

See, I'm short AND fat and reading BT321's everything made ME want to vomit in my mouth!!

Ugh, you again with your 'vomit in the mouth' shit. Why put this out there? Why tell all the fat people reading this that their bodies literally disgust you?

Not trying to be a jerk, but what happens if you find this guy and then he gets fat?