The image is a pleasant, much-needed break from the daily insanity.

I gain more and more respect for Stoya every time I read something by or about her. Her writings for Vice are well worth reading.

Dude.

Adults making these sort of references about teenagers is never creepy.

So, in other words, you need validation from women feminists? We have to pat you on your self-serving back, or lose you as an ally? Oh, I do hate ultimatums!

You just #notallmen’d this and also made it 100% about you. You might want to re-read that bit about “how to be a good ally” in the 101 feminism handbook.

Oh yeah no definitely, she’s the one who deserves vitriol here, not the asshole she was responding to... How about YOU get the fuck outta here instead, you sorry little troll?

I get that but I think it’s dangerous to allow individual positive experiences to control the narrative in this regard. And my point is that “consent” is not a simple matter when it comes to BDSM or sexual violence. Honestly, I don’t entirely believe it’s a simple matter at all, when you get down to it, given that…

This is an utterly simplified and simplistic statement though. Non-conventional sex practices absolutely don’t make you a rapist. Raping makes you a rapist. That’s not in question. What’s the concern is: how does the climate of BDSM and rape fantasies negatively effect women and enable their abusers, particularly when…

This comment section gave me cancer.

Yet, I feel no sympathy for a woman who needs a SAFEWORD. Sorry.

Just a heads up that your post is dead on and all the people going out of their way to dismiss you should probs fuck right off.

Not just consent, but basic communication. Combine a guy who thinks he’s supposed to make a move with a lack of education on how to talk about what he wants, she wants, they want, etc.- both of which are unbelievably common traits, especially when they’re young- and, yeah, most guys are capable of crossing some…

Except women having rape fantasies is a thing completely outside a man’s choice to repeatedly simulate rape. Given the prevalance of rape and abuse - primarily of women - in sex work, porn, and BDSM, it’s relevant and valid to question the motivations of the men who choose to participate in them repeatedly and…

Liberal feminists, and those practicing other forms of non-radical, utterly male-appeasing feminism.