Jumping in here to say: NOT YOUR FAULT. Most women don’t get off during penetration. I dated my husband for several years, broke up, and then got back together (and later married him). No orgasms the first time. When we got back together, I was all,…

Godspeed. I’m in Portland & was on OKC for years. It’s literally the worst. I’ve taken myself out of the dating pool for now cuz I can’t deal with online dating anymore

Because I need to have sex. I haven’t had sex in over TWO YEARS you guys.

Logical/cynical brain says as he was texting ALL the time before and now he isn’t, obviously he has found someone else to talk to and that I need to move on its done, but Hope Lives On brain says to be reasonable

I haven’t watched it in at least 10 years and don’t remember that scene. Can you remind me what he does when she comes outside?

Ninjacate when she was here said something really great about how violence against women is real, and maybe it’s in how it’s depicted and handled by creators who aren’t sensitive to it. Also it’s so important that we consider all women’s stories and all women creators. Cause if you just fill the problem with white…

i can’t even be mad. i clicked into this article. i read it. i did this to me.

So...like...Breanna was kinda super-specific what Briskman is suing for. If they’d have simply fired her for something like conduct unbecoming her profession/job, she’d basically have no case. But that’s not what they fired her for.

Yeah. But her argument is that they didn’t fire her for a moral reason, but because they were fearful of retaliation from the government (further amplified by the fact that they failed to terminate another person caught up in a political argument online)

They cultivate it based on the person. One morning I stopped for gas and a local white cop had pulled over a soccer mom, also white, in a Prius. They were laughing and having what seemed like a peasant conversation as she sat in her car. His lights were one but there was nothing menacing about his demeanor. No…

Completely agree - also:

No fucking kidding. How about instead of bashing her for climbing herself out of the pits of hell, we fucking congratulate her for coming out on top.

I am no Kathy G apologist... but hear me out:

My guess? Something illegal.

You’re correct.

I think you’ve gotten your parties confused. The Republicans are the ones who comment that each step toward fascism is “concerning,” and then vote as the Dear Leader tells them. The Dems are the ones doing all they can — limited at the moment, it’s true — to stop, block, defeat, remove this cancer on our government.…

Wonderful, as always, to see a woman’s looks torn apart, but what sense does it make to know you’re guaranteed to insult readers who share the same “undesirable” traits?

Final hummingbaby update: I took this pic in the morning and when I got home that night they were gone. I’m child-free, so this is the first time I’ve felt the bittersweet pang of an empty nest. But I once read that in some Native American traditions the hummingbird is said to come as a reminder of the joy in life.…