Ya know, this is kind of the problem. Guys think of this in terms of success/failure, and we think of it as survival. Y'all are not treating us like people, you're treating us like a video game.

Isha, while I appreciate the focus brought on this hashtag, I think you're extremely wrong to characterize "everyday misogyny" as somehow distinct from the misogyny which fueled Rodger's machinations and eventually his killing spree.

I was out for my birthday last Saturday night and was out dancing with my friends. Literally in just our little circle dancing away to some cheesy 90's music. Some guy came up behind me and just would not stop groping me. I removed his hands and said 'No' at least 4 times, eventually I just moved to a different part…

I'm | too sexy for the dance | too sexy for the Dads | too sexy for the lads

"Neurotic people are rather anxious, insecure, and easily annoyed. They have a tendency towards depression, often show low self-esteem and tend to be generally dissatisfied with their lives."

The only time I've resorted to plan B was after my rapist rudely failed to use a condom. (There was also that whole non-consensual sex thing, too, which also soured our relationship.)