There is a difference between slut shaming and pointing out an obvious attempt at manipulation/cheating. I never said anything about provocative clothing, and I took what Vidya said in a professional context where there IS a cut and dry sleeping your way to the top kind of person. She stated which kind of scenario…

One more thing, if you happen to be attractive and unwilling to sleep with your higher ups, you are THE WORST UPTIGHT BITCH that ever walked in the door. And the attractive girl who was willing? She's fuckin awesome, brah.

You absolutely can blame someone for attempting to manipulate the patriarchy in this day and age. Sure women have more work to do as far as equality but this isn't the 1800's where we have no choice. Have you ever been in a workplace where a woman used sex to advance her career? I have twice, and I shamelessly…

I can't believe I forgot about this song! It came out when I was still a little naive about the world so I guess it didn't affect me as much as it does now. Thanks!

You don't have to dress "slutty," I went to one and just wore normal clothes b/c I'm not that comfortable in overly revealing clothing unless its hot and it wasn't. In fact, there was a Muslim woman there covered head to toe with a sign around her neck that said "slut." Slutwalk started when a cop at a college…

Sorry, I get really worked up over the issue because a lot of people truly don't understand sexual harassment and how nuanced it can be. I think a lot of these sexual harassment videos/seminars oversimplify the issue and make it even harder for people to understand and easier to trivialize/brush off as someone being…

Also, there are not just two kinds of sexual harassment. Please don't claim to be an expert on such a complicated issue and simplify it this way. It is extremely damaging to take a complicated issue and turn it into 2 types. It is also extremely damaging to say something like this is hostile when it is not. There…

I was talking about hostile being the word used to describe the scenario. I spent all summer dealing with the EEOC/DFEH over a sexual harassment claim that I personally filed. My claim was 6 pages long. Having gone through sexual harassment that lasted the duration of a year, I can tell you that there is nothing…

Well yeah we NEED to eat more than we need to have sex. Also, women have this whole food shame thing because of impossible body standards so I'm sure its safe to say that we have a more complicated relationship with food than most men. Many of us feel shame/regret after eating pizza while men so very rarely think…

I think its pretty funny, the first 30 seconds especially were so spot on of what you see men do ALL THE TIME in the workplace. I've had coworkers every day greet me in that exact manner. I find it funny because its so normal in real life for a man to do it but when you see a woman doing it, its shocking. It's the…

I disagree that she made the environment hostile. Hostile is when backlash and retaliation happen. Sure the woman in the skit is wrong and making people uncomfortable but she is not at all threatening to the person she is harassing in order to consider this "hostile."

I understand everything you just said, but from a severe sexual harassment/backlash/retaliation standpoint. It's the "you deserved it" stance that you recieve from "decent" otherwise good people that is the worst, the feeling you can't shake, the thing that makes you hate the entire world and want to scream at anyone…

Yeah, I don't think the lady in graylace's boobs look anything but normal. I never would've noticed that they weren't up to her chin unless it was pointed out. My boobs sit that way and I'm 27. I don't think its from sagging or being close to ones waist, I believe that's a product of REAL BOOBS. Way to go feminist…

Awe, it is one of those movies that sucks you in, I'm glad it helped when you needed it!

OMG I LOVE The Valet, I actually own that one! You're right, they ARE the best I've never seen a bad one...

Bridget Jones' Diary

So awesome to hear a man talking about rape. I'm a firm believer that rape is a MAN'S problem, and it infuriates me that most men shy away from the issue and get uncomfortable at any mention of it. Even when I mentioned going to Slutwalk most men's ears perked up at the name and then "oh, whoa...thats serious" and…

Oh how I love Susan Sarandon. She is amazing, plays great roles, and has this vibe that she is just super cool and won't take any shit. She's the kind of person that you see and think "she's pretty" and then you learn more about her and then she becomes the most beautiful person. Now I want to go watch Stepmom.

MAYBE SHE'S NOT THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM!!! Amen, sister.

Right, so show that. I'm not talking about showing them after they've already been broken down. This ad is to raise awareness so it needs to show the emotions they go through when they are being forced. I'm sure it takes plenty of time to get them not to show emotion, and there are plenty of scenarios in the…