Too Many Waves has posted many “comments” which are inherently degrading to feminists everywhere. I don’t see how anyone even in the “non sex positive” faction could consider them a legitimate feminist.

*knock, knock* “This is the feminist police! I heard you have fantasies I personally don’t approve of. Open the door and I will shoot you!”

This person wants to police woman it seems. “thou shalt not enjoy multiple partners, you dirty slut.”

except that rough sex and sex with multiple partners IS something I enjoy and knew that I liked before I even watched porn sooooo. if you don’t like something, that’s fine. but don’t act like you can speak for women everywhere because you don’t.

Really? Because I find rough sex a lot of fun and sex with multiple male partners to be super hot and would love to try it someday. And how do you know that at no point were her needs stressed or considered? You don’t know what negotiations took place before filming started. Isn’t that up to her to decide if she’s…

When you say “Being passed around by multiple, misogynistic men and used for their degrading sexual purposes is inherently anti-feminist at best, and anti-woman at worst.” you are of course correct about misogynists and women they intend to degrade.

Feminists don’t go around telling other women what to do or what’s right for them. I myself trust women to figure that out for themselves.

In reality, different women are turned on by different things. A gangbang doesn’t always mean being “passed around” and some people really like being degraded and used as a fucktoy by multiple people. Just because there are multiple men does not mean that the woman isn’t choosing to be there and is being degraded.…

Okay, but what if you’re a woman and you get off on being passed around?

So women are bloc when it comes to sex. No ‘real’ woman ever wants to have sex with multiple male partners simultaneously. Or perhaps you’re stuck at how porn portrays women who do have that desire not aligning with how it plays outside with porn- so now we’ve shifted from no ‘real’ women want this to this is not how…

How about you don’t try to speak for (and shame) other people for what they chose to do?

I’m sorry but I think you’re missing the point. While you may think that (and I would personally agree that a ‘gang-bang’ is not something I would be into), there are surely women who disagree with us. If they are consenting (and not coerced) participants, who’s to say it is wrong? Do you feel the same way if it was…

...how is that a “degrading act to women everywhere?” If a woman wants to engage in that behavior, isn’t that her right? Who are you to say that disqualifies her from being a feminist?

Angela White you say. Interesting.