The level of unthinking schadenfreude in this post and in the comments is frankly making me uncomfortable.

if you think giving a woman head involves “sticking your tongue in a hole” then you are not speaking truth, bro.

probably best to stay away from women altogether as your contempt comes through pretty clearly here.

I hate being actually fingered. Hate it. It doesn’t feel pleasurable and most men don’t know what the fuck they’re doing. I also like a light touch when I’m being stimulated, and men get weird about that too. Like they want to act like my clit is a turntable or something. It’s not. It’s a clit and I think I know what…

Everyone is different, and different people enjoy different things during sex. Not enjoying digital penetration doesn’t make your friend weird, just a person that doesn’t enjoy digital penetration. If your partner gives you crap about it, explain to them how your body has always been your own and you know it better…

An unskilled unenthusiastic blowjob may result in YOUR orgasm, this is not true of most men I’ve known. And the article does not say amything about penetration. It says the key to giving a woman an orgasm, most of the time at least, is kissing, fingers, and oral sex. So why the fuck do you keep talking about how…

Ask him if you have to let his stick his dick in you EVERY time.

LOL who the fuck said she should be proud? Or he should be grateful. Both should try to please the other not to score points.

Sigh. I’ve run into this problem as well. And I get that it can get tiring to do the same sexual act every time, especially if it’s not one that is your favorite. I even understand if a guy decides that’s a dealbreaker and that he’d rather move on to another partner whose needs are closer to his desires.

But it’d be great if heterosexual men would talk to each other about this, so their girlfriends don’t have to keep writing orgasm Sparknotes.

Also please don’t assume you are a sex god because you do oral. I know what will get me off and guys be like oh you just wait until I get there and I’m like hahaha stop you’ll probably do it wrong. And they do it all wrong and I don’t come and they just can’t accept that their technique needs adjustment.

Gotta love the guy who asks if you came when they’re done, like if you don’t know most likely it didn’t happen!?

This just shows you how isolated in their little bubble these people are. This guy clearly doesn’t know any trans people in real life; they are just some boogey-men out there that he imagines looks like John Cleese in a dress and acts like a sex-crazed lunatic. Faced with an actual, real-life trans person who just…

BECAUSE IF YOUR GOD DAMN JOB IS TO WATCH MOVIES AND SELECT THE BEST ONES, YOU SHOULD TAKE IT SERIOUSLY. ALSO MAYBE THESE SELF PRETENTIOUS ASSHOLES SHOULDN’T HIDE BEHIND ANONYMOUS COMMENTS. Feel better?

As long as I have been aware of award shows, which is probably about 30 years, the common opinion is they almost always get it wrong. Usually in a way that diminishes the artistic works of minorities and people of color. Although, even taking race out of the equation, you get Jethro Tull winning a Heavy Metal Grammy…

But, see, you are mostly describing the wedding. I am not changing my last name. I am not having my father walk me down the aisle; if it were going to be anyone, it’d be my mom. White dress? Negotiable. It might be a soft color, but I am not going to do some stark white dress. The jig is up.

I get that, but it isn’t as if any property that was left to me by my father will now go to my husband. Laws surrounding marriage have changed, so I don’t think it’s fair to make the statement that she is making.

We can talk about that, but let’s not pretend that suddenly capitalism is an issue when a Black woman is rich and famous as fuck. Let’s not criticize every famous Black woman who says she’s a feminist while praising famous white women for the bare minimum. And let’s not dismiss Beyonce for being sexual while praising…

Agreed. Especially since so many examples of problems she went on to discuss are specific to “white feminism.”

She lost me with her comments on white feminism. It’s not just power, it’s the power and cluelessness that whiteness affords.