I think that, while women don’t necessarily fetishize larger men, there are definitely a lot of women out there who like the idea of a man being larger, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be in a muscular way. I have a friend who is bisexual, and she likes her partners to be meaty, regardless of gender. She wants to…

Oh I know. That’s why they’re on my Christmas list - can’t buy them for myself.

These are literally on my Christmas list. They’ve been there ever since I saw them at Pier 1. I lust after so many pillows there.

I’m not even sure that it’s true that it’s the first public hospital - I wrote about it for a local newspaper in California, and both the hospitals there had one and both were public, as far as I know. Maybe there are different definitions of “public” - does this hospital only give out free services or services to…

Yes! It was so disappointing at my last job that it was women bosses who were shitting on me. Women who didn’t have kids, who thought I couldn’t do my job because I had kids, despite a lot of evidence to the contrary.

I have wanted to dropkick people who smoke at playgrounds. That’s a special kind of stupid. But most people are like my friend in the story above - she kept moving around trying to stay upwind of me, LOL. Though Vegas sucked, there was SO much smoking - it’s like everyone who normally vapes said, fuck it, I’m in Vegas…

I used to, and I’m one of those who is really sensitive to it now. I got pregnant about 9 years ago, quit smoking, and while pregnant it was the only thing that could make me feel nauseated and it kind of stuck. I just try to avoid people smoking, I never say anything to them directly, though.

She’s a cool winter, coloring-wise. Which I find a little funny...but my name is also Hillary, and I’m a cool winter!

The ability to self-deprecate is indicative of self-awareness.

It says it’s form-fitting, which makes me think it’s a women’s cut? I do kind of wish it didn’t have the heart and wasn’t white, but the latter can be fixed with a dye job.

Or put it in his neck vagina. Ew.

All of Donald’s sniffing and microphone fidgeting got me to thinking about how much training anyone who speaks in public a lot, for extended periods of time, must have in order not to do that. I touch my face way too much, I know that would be my issue.

Here in Tennessee, they’re on a mix of Mountain Dew and tobacco chaw.

So interesting - my sister was very physical (to the point of being a bully) and while I still have some resentment about that, it actually made me realize that it formed a certain aggressive responsiveness in me. The two times a stranger has physically confronted me, my reaction is to fight. When I’ve been catcalled,…

Thanks - I’m proud, too. I think my friend would have jumped on him and gouged his eyeballs out, she’s a spitfire. We didn’t need a man, but I think only another man stepping in could have deescalated it as the offender didn’t think that women should be allowed to defend themselves against his words or assaults.…

No real regret - just wish that I could have said something that could have maybe clarified more to him WHY he shouldn’t have said that, though when I think about it, I don’t know what it would be. And besides, he KNOWS why, so maybe Fuck Off was the right approach. And I didn’t mean it AT ALL as a cautionary tale, or…

Thank you! I have NO clue what I would have done if there hadn’t been other people around. And that makes me even angrier - what would this fucker have felt like was appropriate if no one else was watching? Because he thought that acting like a 2-year-old was totally OK after I hurt his fee-fees. I do know my friend…

I’m not sure hilarious is how I’d describe it, but I’m glad you can get your rocks off on violence and harassment against women.

She could have - but we are so conditioned not to, right? Even after the event, she’s trying to play it off as NBD. Ugh.

It sucks, but there’s danger in that depending on the context. I was so shocked at something that happened when I went to Vegas. I hadn’t even been in town 12 hours and the sexist shit hit the fan. Mind you, I’ve lived in smaller towns/cities and was sheltered before that, so I don’t have a lot of experience with…