I don’t know. I think there is a way to bring up concerns without being an asshole. There is a lot to be said for asking people questions about what concerns you about someone’s relationship as opposed to just telling them what you have already decided. Instead of “he’s a leech” you can say “I know how hard you work…

Yes, you weirdo.

Am I really the only one who at least tries to get the guy to let me chip in for half?

First Czolgosz, now Obama.

Imma guess the Illuminati cut you off before you could finish

Oooooooooooo. Miley.

Well, I’ll post the Google image search that contains it:

fuckin love sandy. i think her and chris evans were/were rumored to be a thing for a while and i was pretty fucking supportive.

There’s a war on tacos? Why is there a war on tacos? Who isn’t pro-taco?

I’m afraid I don’t know of this essay, but I can speak from the other side of the matter. Now that I’m middle-aged, I find that always having been plain at least affords the advantage of having an identity and self-worth not based on your looks already in place. Good luck trying to convince anyone it’s an advantage…

ah. the zero sum game.

Typical mail behavior.

Why are we talking about jokes? Where are my stamps? The real outrage is the state of the postal service in this country. Please quit with the chit-chat and mail my package, OK

That’s not really the point though, is it? No one’s asking you to make that tradeoff. Surely we can talk about these issues without the answer being “shut up, pro choice”. There are moral complexities here that merit discussion. Fetuses are being destroyed for being female in China. It’s a serious problem. Women…

It’s a... touchy subject to stay the least.

Question from a pro choice feminist, just so that’s clear, but for real: how are we supposed to feel about abortions undertaken for discriminatory reasons? I am profoundly morally uneasy about the fact that people are terminating pregnancies because of the characteristics of the fetus. Like, a woman can abort because…

There are concerns about ability selective abortions (it is seen by many in the disability community as a more sanitized version of eugenics, equivalent to sex selective abortions in parts of India and China).

Mother of a child with Down syndrome here. I also run our local Down syndrome organization. Shit like this just pisses me off. It dilutes our advocacy efforts, and shows what a divided movement we truly are. I am pro-choice. Am I sad when a woman chooses to terminate a Down syndrome pregnancy? Of course. Is it any of…