You should identify yourself as a journalist for sure and say you’re taking a picture for your outlet. It’s unclear if the writer did that.

No. I’d say unless she identified herself as a member of the media and asked if she could write about it in an article for Jezebel, this is pretty solidly unethical. Twitter, fine, but this isn’t a personal blog, and people have a right to know when they’re being interviewed for a major media outlet.

No. Although the guy deserves all contempt and ridicule, this is crossing a line in my book.

The friend. In all likelihood the other guy won’t last too long on his own.

Here’s a puzzler: You only have one bullet. Do you shoot the guy in the “rape your face” shirt or his somehow-even-dumber friend?

Am I the only person who thinks it’s ethically questionable to be posting some rando bro’s face without (as far as I can tell from the narrative presented here) his consent just for being a creepy, bro-tastic bro wearing a gross t-shirt? Like, on your twitter account, whatever; but posting it to Jezebel...?

Non-consensual skull fucking! Tell your friends!

“One last question,” I said. “Have you ever literally raped someone’s face?”

Just yesterday, I was at the corner store buying my standard migraine hangover cure: giant ass Coke Zero and some salt-and-vinegar potato chips. I had messed up hair, sunglasses deployed, ratty-ass clothes, and Kid Electron in tow, because it’s just not a migraine hangover without a three-year-old asking for Skittles…

Agreed: imperialist and capitalist wars are wrong.

Not that it’s terribly important, but for some cultural context: for middle-class Torontonians, going up north to cottage country is a yearly ritual in summer. If your family doesn’t have a cottage, it’s likely that you’ll know someone who does. For a lot of kids, visiting friends at their cottages represents, for…

Because it’s verboten or because those aren’t choices that you want to make for yourself? There’s a difference.

Ladyology is not a dick, really. We had a disagreement not long ago, recently enough that I sortakinda remember it (I tend to forget these things), and what I remember most is that she was very gracious about agreeing to let it go even though I had been a dick. That was truly kind and I appreciate it. We’re not…

And yet being a separate person is. If something requires being embedded inside of a body that feeds it and breathes for it, and will die if not having everything necessary done for it, than it is effectively no more separate than a heart or a lung.

If it would die if removed from your body, than it’s not alive.

I got married at 19 to a 21 year old who was awesome at finances. We started school after we married and I had a kid at 21. That left me still cute and an emptynester by 39. I think you have a sound plan for a stable life. But I shall warn you, you don’t know if your man would get a cut on his hand that turned to the…

The expectation is that the two spouses will have achieved all of their preliminary professional, financial, and social goals and will be fully developed, independent human beings.

trust me everyone could smell it.

You’re disgusting. People have asked this before, but please stop sharing your disgusting, disturbing, and probably made-up stories in the hopes of getting women to share their sexual histories with you. I think your tactics are pretty played out and well known, and they’re not going to work any better on Jezebel.