1) i am not lecturing her. i said i respect her opinion on intervention, but disagree with it and war in general. i know many people on multiple sides of war and i don’t think it’s a way to help people who are oppressed. it builds on pre-existing cycles of other oppression and only makes matters worse for a big chunk…

i didn’t say anything about wars making me “uncomfortable.” my feelings on war are much stronger than that. but as i already said, you are welcome to your opinion. i disagree with you on many points, but am not denying you your experience.