Ha ha. Yea well I feel that way about a dude that lives down the street. We're in the same social circle, we’re friends, he hangs out with my husband, the kids play together and I’m friends with his awesome girlfriend too. So no way anything would ever happen, but certainly I have moments where my inner teenager just…

Oh god, you’re right. I didn’t mean to be dismissive, and the way you describe it is heart wrenching. I just meant... Well keep in mind I’m straight and have only been with straight guys, so I don’t have that added layer of there being some people out there who feel they might need to be embarrassed or lie about me…

My (late) mother was an HR exec. I had seen her several times whipping through a stack of resumes and keeping a few, but most went into the rejection pile after a 15 second review. Career military always got rejected categorically. I asked her why once, and she said it was because they can’t think for themselves,…

Ithink most of us agree with you, but of course there are probably a few assholes out there that don’t. I believe some housing programs may require residents to pay some kind of rent, regardless of veteran status.

True. I should have been clearer about the debt I think we owe people who serve in the military. Anyone who joins the military signs up to do what we, as a nation, tell them to do, and there is no guarantee they’ll get a cushy pencil pusher job. I look at it as signing away part of your own judgement, and I think that…

My dad is a veteran of four wars and a retired Colonel of the Marine Corp. Since Bush he can’t get a straight forward answer for anything.

I think the veterans already paid for them by risking their lives doing our collective bidding.

Wonderful news. But serious question here: Are the provided homes free or do the veterans have to pay for them or meet some work/wage standard in order to keep living there?

My husband would have to dump half his clients if I was an insecure person that made unrealistic demands.

“I didn’t mean to eat behind your back!” - has been said by both Maximan and me in our house.

It’s not victim-blaming to wonder. I wonder also. Not just about the prosthetic, but also about the costume and the defense’s story. People are innocent until proven guilty right? The defense’s story makes sense too. She says they were role-playing, that the victim knew who she was all along, and that the victim…

not a lawyer, but I believe the US has a charge called “rape by fraud.” I’m not entirely sure what type of fraud would get you into trouble in the US....i imagine lying about your HIV status could do it.

I think it’s considered rape, because she would never have consented to having sex with this chick wearing a dick. It’s similar to when some rando fucks someone’s wife in the dark, pretending to be her husband.

I am in awe of this woman’s trust level. Blindfolded on the first go round? NOPE. I’m going to need to see what you’re dealing with to make sure I still want you to give it to me.

There’s still about 2 months left of the year.

Whether it’s true or not, I think it’s believable.

I would not be surprised if this was the truth (her never getting asked out). I saw something similar with a drop dead gorgeous friend of mine. Every nice guy would never approach her because they just assumed she was out of their league, while the only people to ever approach were jackasses who thought they were…

Only if JLaw liked ladies too... :(

That’s one thing dating long distance teaches you; your partner will definitely be hanging out with people of the same gender when you’re not there, and so will you, and that’s just the way it is.

because when people go to vote and they see three pages of judges and the question is “should this person keep their job” everyone just does a flat yes all the way down because the only person they came to vote for is the President/Governor.