Thanks.

I’m going to catch hell for this and I hope I don’t get sent back to the greys forever, but:

That is such good advice. My Mom gave me similar advice when I was younger and I dated a ton of different types of guys (and a few women even!). Now I have such a better idea of what I do/don’t want in a partner, and I’m so much less focused on this narrow idea of what I find attractive.

It probably doesn’t help that the current lumbersexual fad has resulted in a bunch of men who just look like they could chop wood then toss you over their shoulder and take you to bed, but in actuality wouldn’t know a trunk ax from a twig hatchet and have the upper body strength of my ninety-one-year-old arthritic…

I DEFINITELY have a type that catches my eye when I see them - namely tall, dark hair, beard, broad shoulders, looks like he could chop wood and then toss me over his shoulder and take me to bed. That being said, only a handful of men I’ve ever dated look like that. It’s just what I find initially aesthetically…

That sort of sexual policing gives me rapey vibes. It suggests that we have to go against our own bodies and experiences to somehow fuck our way to social justice - which is gross. I don’t need to be shamed or coerced into having sex that I don’t want to have, especially not when its only to further a narrative.

Gay…

Del Toro knows what he’s doing. He’s always told stories of fascinating women. His sense of color is outstanding. He’s one of the best directors working right now and I’m absurdly excited he managed to get Crimson Peak made. I hope it does insanely well and he gets to do Pacific Rim 2.

Not having to work on the View seems like a good thing.

You are why things don’t change. People should vote for the best candidate, not the least evil.

Especially since voting for the lesser evil, is just voting for GOP Lite (yes talking Clinton).

As part of the black community... we’re totally voting for Bernie

I’m an independent and I would vote for Bernie but never for clinton. Best chance for Trump to win is to go against hillary.

I completely disagree about his chances in the general election. I think he would beat anyone the GOP has. Handily. The more America sees of Bernie, the more they will love him. Because he IS real. He IS who he says he is. He IS trustworthy. The independent and swing voters will support someone they disagree with if…

Nope. I think he could win in a general election. I am only worried about his chances of winning the primary.

UGHHHH. I hate all this “I’m doing X to raise awareness for Y”. The purple fingernails, the wearing green, the drawing & writing on oneself, none of it DOES anything. It reminds me of the whole Kony thing a few years back, when suddenly everyone on Facebook had posted a status that was ostensibly supposed to somehow…

its not even urban vs. rural necesserily. Poor and working class (which is actually a larger group than people think, if you are above poverty, but mostly live paycheck to paycheck, cant afford a vacation, cant afford college for your kids, you are working class, we lump them into middle class because no one wants to…

Point being all his supporters don’t live in an old chicken coop in Alabama. They are just as likely to be quietly hidden among the Urban elites.

There is quite a huge discrepancy between rural and urban. Rural people have much worse unemployment, especially rural black people, are twice as likely to own guns (though they have low crime rates), are more likely to be living in poverty, have rampant drug and teen pregnancy issues compared to urban dwellers, and…

By this and the associated comments, I can assume that in the opinion of the average xenophobic Democrat anyone who chooses to not live in the midst of modern urban society is somehow less than human. If you eschew the convenience of the paved landscape within demarcated city limits, you are naturally an uneducated,…

Capitalist feminism. Where success for women means being CEO or otherwise making tons of money and becoming a SAHM or otherwise compromising your workload because you WANT to have more time with your family “sacrificing your career” and a feminist sin.

I used to comment regularly on Jezebel for years (under a different name) and stopped because of the feeling the author describes when someone she assumed would be an ally made her feel unwelcome.