Except most well adjusted people do get hints, because somebody hinting at something and somebody getting the hint makes social situations less awkward and less direct. There's nothing insulting in this article unless you're a man looking to be insulted. If somebody has to be that direct to you, then you've already…

So youre saying the terrible behavior of men is completely excused, its all on her to cease our advances rather than the man stop being a goddamn creep?