More like the boss to the tutorial level. Boss level 10 is for people with talent in the first place.

Whenever I read a frothy article that’s all ‘Here are the top ten things in women’s fashion that men hate’, I just want to do everything on the list as a reminder that I do not exist for anybody’s boner. It’s that level of pettiness that led to me cutting off all of my hair after a boyfriend told me he didn’t want me…

I never wore makeup but I’ve been experimenting with it lately. Always garish — blue lipstick, glitter eyes, stuff that is not “pretty” but like a poisonous snake that warns you away with bright colors. Screw them and their entitlement to how I should look.

Great piece. And may I recommend getting fat? I am completely invisible now. But nothing makes men angrier than a fat feminist who loves herself. Example number one - Lindy West. She rocks.

Vanity keeps me from throwing away my makeup and sanity keeps me from, as I often feel the repugnant urge, breaking the mirror with the surface of my own face and leaving us both cracked open. But I also can’t deny my current impulse to become as ugly and unlikeable as I can, merely to serve as constant reminder of…

This was amazing. Thank you for writing!

Fuck Tom and all the Toms of the world.

All responsible gun owners are responsible gun owners right up until they aren't. Weird how that works.

Gunter was arrested and charged with aggravated burglary, as well as lesser charges for violations of the restraining order and stalking.

That’s why I pack all kinds of random shit under there, I tell everyone that it’s because I’m a slob, but really it’s so nobody can fit in there.

the woman called ADT Security to have a system installed. During the installation, she went into her bedroom to get her cellphone, and the phone was gone.

I can’t believe I’m well over 30 and commenting on this... BUT. If you look at her lyrics, she is actually not a woman who sees herself as a victim. Many of her songs do show the mind of a woman who is attracted to the power dynamics in the bad boy/good girl relationship and takes full ownership of that. Her earlier…

It’s the fact that everything in her life seems to be perfectly manufactured and she always seems to place herself as the victim, that’s what bothers me.

“I got mine, fuck all ya’ll” - older GOP’ers

I’d be more worried about certain states thinking about how great this idea sounds again.

You’re making us want to post the Atwood quote again.

My parents went through a nasty divorce when I was a teen. At one point my dad told me he gave his gun to a friend to hold so he wouldn’t do something “stupid.” And then he laughed. I respect the hell out of Dingell for sharing her experience in a room full of people who probably don’t want to hear it.

Everyone is focusing on what the abuser did wrong, but I don’t hear anyone talking about the important thing — how did the victim bring this on herself?

I feel like it’s just people in the big cities who are so cold and unfriendly. We moved to a distant suburb of Seattle/Tacoma and the people are so much friendlier. (And they all seem to smoke cigarettes but I digress.)

Selma Blair’s apology is lovely. I think you have a fourth point for your list.