Meal delivery and child care would probably be very appreciated. Ask her what she needs.

Definitely ask her what she needs! Maybe watching the kids for a day depending on how old they are so she can breathe and grieve. Or consider bringing her some meals to put in the freezer a few weeks from now! People tend to send food in the days after but it kind of peters out after a while and needing to cook for a…

Ask her what she needs. You’re a good friend, so just try to keep being there for her. :)

It took therapy for me to cut ties off completely with my father - my brothers sometimes hint that I should give him a chance, but fuck that. Therapy has also helped me not to mind my mother so much (I still see her but very very little). In “short”, a couple years in therapy have been the answer for me, and also a…

Contrast: just got back from my friend’s mom’s funeral. Poor woman had a stroke in her 50s about thirteen years ago and just faded slowly, in hospice the last three. Her wake was packed and tears flowed, despite the fact that she couldn’t participate in life for over a decade. She was so loved. My friend walked…

Reading that was cathartic and I empathize with the daughter. I was abused as a kid and I’m currently trying to negotiate and grapple with both loving my parents and being angry with them. They pretty much refuse to acknowledge the damage and hurt they inflicted and just deflect and guilt trip. It is not helpful when…

Damn. Bravo is right. Her follow up statement covers all the bases and shuts down pretty much any of the bullshit criticism that might have been levied at them. Good for them.

You missed the woman’s AWESOME follow up. Bravo!

Oh fuck him with a rusty pitchfork. That is fucking despicable.

Today, this tomato faced cockstain invoked the name of the US Navy SEAL who died in the yemen raid, and used him to shame anyone asking about the raid. He straight up said anyone questioning the effectiveness or execution of the raid was insulting the dead serviceman.

Trump is reported to care excessively about the appearance of his staffers.

When I was 7 years old I wrote something kind of shitty in a note and got caught, the first thing my parents said was ‘NEVER put shit like that in writing’.

So true

Yes. She is confirmed. Congress just dealt the death blow to public education.

+1 Pounded Stirling

in one email he wrote, “Unless it’s a knighthood fuck off”

February 7, 2017. The day public education died.

I would give a guy shit for cheating on her about 10 seconds after his transplant scar healed and continuing to do so for years until she filed for divorce, then dicking her around in court for two years to try to give her as little money as humanly possible. George Lopez is a scumbag.

Yeah, let’s not forget the whole kidney thing.

Third rule in Latino families: leave your wife after she donates her organs to you.