But yet they didn’t bother to mention any of the victims, despite the fact that, statistically speaking, at least one of them will try to kill themselves because of his crimes. (>12.5% of rape victims make a suicide attempt—and that’s not even accounting for aggravating factors, like betrayals of trust and having to…

Agree completely. There is a difference in making your gaze known by tracking a person back and forth like a dog begging at a table vs. subtly glancing and appreciating a person, for whatever reason, that does not make the subject uncomfortable (or frankly even realize you are looking).

Not that your comments on birth tourism aren’t true or important, but as for flying late in pregnancy: