Omg omg omg. So my husband took a day off work a few months back alleging that he would do some cleaning and laundry. Which he did like one load pshhh, I get home after working all day and he’s playing video games (in a still messy living room) and he looks at me and says, “So what are you thinking for dinner?” I…

the bit about men developing a culture of talking about this stuff is a really important point.

The bit about it being sloppy or wrong if, by some miracle, they actually do the work is what kills most of us dead, I think.

It can be hard to put your foot down, because no one wants to have to nag.

I am a man who lives with my best friend, who just happens to be a woman. Everything is 50/50. When I cook, she does the dishes. When she cooks, I do the dishes. I vacuum the second floor, she vacuums the third floor. We each do our own laundry and clean our own bathrooms. She buys groceries at the co-op where she…

Well said. When I would bark at my husband for not emptying the trash or picking up after himself, he said he didn’t notice it. Literally expecting someone else to take care of it.

Here’s the issue my husband believes (like literally believes) we are at 50/50 when in reality it’s more like 90/10 and it blows my mind. What was even more revealing is I tried to create a chore chart/list to create a more equal workload but so many items I was like “he won’t do that right” or “this looks like he’s…

Because a lot of dudes literally don’t see or understand the full scope of the work as a result of socialization. Women see the unequal distribution of household labor because they’re the ones doing the work. It’s like how white people don’t see white privilege because they’re the ones with the privilege. People of…

You read Jezebel.

While I understand that it absolutely is a thing, I do not understand why so many men are seemingly unwilling or unable to go at least 50/50 on household chores and child rearing, and why so many women put up with/allow it. As a guy myself, this dynamic just seems ridiculous.

I appreciate all the effort you’re putting into coining the new phrase and all, but nobody has been betrayed. As much as this move might pervert competitive balance in the league, Durant never promised to stay, didn’t pull a DeAndre Jordan, and made a move he thought would get him closer to a championship.

You’re right; my mistake. The person who taped TRAITOR to his former favorite player’s jersey and is protesting the fact that the player agreed to a contract somewhere else by holding up a sign outside the team’s headquarters is acting in a perfectly reasonable way.

Yeah, pretty sure that’s the joke.

The discrepancy in talent between these two sides is so big you wonder if they’re even playing the same sport. This should really put any fanboys on notice just how far off American football really is. This team and this country SUCKS at soccer. They have some mid-level talent in the backline and Pulisic is promising…

Anyone who believes that Dana White would personally tell a journalist he got fired from network television anything of importance lacks critical thinking skills (which would explain why they’re Dana White apologists in the first place).

and, ps, just so we’re clear, Im talking about Will’s article, not Drew’s. Another commenter pointed it out, but when a guy known for making fun of BIG (insert area here) has a better concept of politics than a guy getting paid the mucho dinero for writing about it does, something is amiss.

Honestly, you should get points if you even manage to make it to the halfway point of this turd of an article. Yes, lets make a guy lose all 50 states so we can prove our party is still pure. Forget that when the primaries are done, 11 Million people will have voted for the guy. I feel like 20 years from now, Trump’s…

If he had written, “Thanks for all the fish.” I would be much more worried.

Typical Deadspin, always sticking up for Cardinals fans, or as they call them around here “the greatest fans in baseball”. I’m sick of the pro-Cardinal bias of this place!

Cardinal fans don’t want the accussed actions of a few to represent all of them. “Most of us are classy enough to call him the n-word in the privacy of our home around only friends and family.”