I was going to say...it’s very telling that youtube music doesn’t even make the cut...

Absolutely. But if you’re like me and don’t go to concerts often then you probably don’t have earplugs on you, whereas I *did* have my pixel buds. Pop those in, ANC on, oh hey, I can still hear the concert but it’s not painful!

“average attractiveness” is another myth.

Thank you *very* much for the well-formatted article. Not a slideshow, not a video. Clear, well presented text. Much appreciated.

A “normal” body count should be zero.

Okay, just to point out - this is still an introvert thing. I highly respect it but it just is.

need to hop into a perpendicularity and get yourself to Roshar then.

I prefer a good Veden blue.

That’s kinda my point.

Is there an age where that's *not* what you say after watching it? 

Okay I totally assumed this would be an article on how to make liquid shell that stays firm at body temperature.

gods...so much this.
I decided I liked my neighbors better when I knew less about them.

.....more like we fucking hate it.
it’s pretty much the reason I ended up losing my last relationship - I couldn’t handle her being upset because if *she* was upset, *I* was upset. every emotion she had, I took on and mirrored. I’m trying like hell to fix that but *fuck* is it difficult.

am I an “empath”? whatever. I…

I believe you may have mistyped "commensurate"?

Okay, that’s fair.

So, I actually get this one. “I’m sorry you feel that way” reads as “I’m sorry that your feelings are wrong”.

“I’m sorry that’s what you heard but that is not my intent". Not perfect but better. 

Well... Someone here has been in an abusive relationship

Nothing.
Because it is never embarassing to learn.
If you learned something today that “everyone knows” YOU ARE ONE OF TODAY’S LUCKY 10,000!!!! (xkcd ref)
Reframing like that has made it so much more fun for me to share things with people that didn’t know them before, and for them too, because there’s no sense of shame…

Weirdly I can't seem to rewatch that one, even though I love it