Yeah no. Anyone who has worked in a restaurant in a major city - where the majority of cheap labor comes from Latino workers (its just a fucking fact, NYC's restaurant industry would wither and die without Mexicans) - has heard this slang in the kitchens. It's not racism to acknowledge that a lot of Spanish speaking…

SAME HERE! Laundry Mountain lives by my bed. Sometimes dirty laundry gets mixed in with Laundry Mountain OR Laundry Mountain will cause the same thing to get washed twice.

Square cut pizza - that is not Sicilian or grandma style - is absolute bullshit.

No offense to those who like vodka, but it is the true sign of a Basic Bitch restaurant that cannot manage to put something more exciting or spirit forward than a fucking lychee martini on the menu. Christ, you can't even do a Hendricks/St. Germain/lime cocktail? GTFO.

I am very sorry that you are going through that. However, it is also unfair that the other person in the relationship should be forced into a life of celibacy. It's just not feasible. It's not sustainable.

I applaud the author for being able to work this out.

This fucker is gonna be the GOP candidate isn't he.

oh god.

I hate these fucking people. I know its irrational. But I hate them like whoa.

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Ruh roh. I planned a trip to a resort on the Riviera Maya. Should I reconsider? It's one of those bourgie all inclusives. It's our 10th anniversary + my graduation from grad school so I require a place to sit on a beach and stare into space. :/

OMG. I think I might be demisexual. Or, at least, more towards that than hypersexual. I guess there is a spectrum for anything!

I would never do this in one million years, but I think she is a 100% BAD ASS for going up there. God speed. I hope she gets in!

It just goes to show you that abuse is abuse no matter how old the child. When it comes to your parents, you are ALWAYS their child. No matter what. This is so awful and I have so much compassion for her. I am glad she has been able to have clarity and get the fuck away from that guy, who is a monster. Full stop.

Thank you. <3 It's a long hard road. No contact for a little over a year now. She didn't leave me much choice. I don't know what the future holds, but I'm trying to finish a graduate degree, and that has to take precedence over her drama. She is an insatiable pit of need and I don't have the supply right now.

Sorry if…

There are good therapists. There are bad therapists. There are amazing parents. There are shitty parents.

I love her so much. I find him irritating. They confuse me as a couple, but being in the other half of a confusing couple myself, they probably have an awesome relationship that totally works. But Samberg needs to stop dragging her to fancy parties or she's never going to make a new album!

I am the child of a mother with NPD, and as DELICIOUS as it is to tell a parent like this to go fuck themselves, its the unfortunate truth that you are just supplying them with ammunition and attention. Best and only thing to do is cut them off.

My mother has narcissistic personality disorder. She abused me and my brother terribly, for decades. She's horrible and yet everyone else thinks she's great because she's awesome at faking empathy. Reading the laundry list of narcissistic personality disorder finally explained the cognitive dissonance and stress that…

Yes, let's shame people for trying to live a healthier lifestyle. That's a great plan. Instead of trying to make your 10,000 steps like your happy cheap little Fitbit reminds you that you should, please, just give up and sit on the couch and eat Ring-Dings. Fantastic.