I need more shows in that chart.

It's not Soylent Green, I ain't mad. Frankly, the amount of alcohol I usually ingest prior to my Taco Bell runs will probably take care of any impurities.

And if we don't wear skirts, we are too butch and not acting like ladies. What's a girl to do?

I was always, there, dreamboat, you just didn't choose to see it.

Yes. About THAT ONE MAN. One man. Sterling. Who I think we can all agree is a piece of work. I do not think he's a bad man for utilizing the services of sex workers, or admins for that matter. I think he's an awful man in general.

No. No I didn't. At no point in any of my posts did I say or suggest anything remotely like that so find someone else who legitimately says something hypocritical to discuss things with. I did not.

Aaaand, we've devolved into absurdity. I suppose that's my cue to get off of the internets and back to work.

No I didn't. You made it about sex-work. And I, like an idiot, followed you down the rabbit hole. But I did not say "sex" nor did I mean only sex. He mentioned secretaries and sex-workers in the same article. I was referencing the whole article.

I'm not vilifying men in general, at all. You are oddly putting words in my post that don't belong there. I'm saying, HE treats women like objects, obviously, not all men, and I vilify him for his thinking any human being is his object to be used and tossed aside. Not only that, but he thinks they should be grateful…

That's HIS behavior, not my thoughts. I have no idea how that isn't clear. One of my senior papers in university was to legalize and regulate safety for prostitution in the States. So, pick me apart another way, if you please.

He did say "can't remember" but my guess it's it's more like "not worth bothering to remember" what with the women he pays being objects for him to use and control and send away when he's done with them. Sounds like it applies to POCs and all women (with the exception of his wife, who looks away until she's publicly…

The first time I went to Dick's one of my friends ordered a white zin (which I mocked her for myself) and they brought it back with like six cocktail straws in it. And on my other friend's hat they wrote "I put the stink in lake Michigan". _I_ was delighted. fortunately, so were my pals.

I encountered the same thing. Anytime a guy whose profile marked "yes" to wants kids, the first thing I'd say is a thanks for reaching out BUT I noticed you want kids and I most definitely don't so let's not waste out time. About half the time they'd responded they had to put that because for a man to say "I don't…

Oh, gawd, "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man".

I'm such a crazy pants about this that I don't even like to watch movie trailers unless they are months out to give me time to forget what I saw, only keep the feeling that I'd like to see it. That said, it's mostly my responsibility to avoid spoilers. I started seeing that something wild happened on GoT through…

RIGHT! I never get carded in bars anymore, i am 43 after all, but at the grocery store last week I got carded. No makeup, as usual, a hoodie, jeans, ballcap and Vans. I handed the guy my ID, he did a total double take, laughed, and said "I was WAY off!". My takeaway from that is that he wasn't trying to be nice or…

Amen, sister. Fuck. Them.

I am totally high fiving you. I've been like this since after high school when I realized IT DIDN'T MATTER. Flash forward, 43 years old, I have virtually no wrinkles and my skin is clear. For a white girl that grew up in the sun, that's a miracle. I contend it has just as much to do with not tugging at my skin every…

I LOVE this. Surrounded by the chaos of your people, at a time special to you, but private. Like you were in on a secret together. That's a good proposal story.

Straight girl, here, unmarried currently. I would HATE an elaborate proposal. HATE IT. I also wouldn't want an elaborate wedding - first trip down the aisle, eloped to Vegas. Bought a dress on Friday because DRESS (the girls at David's were all kinds of pissed that I a) didn't make an appt and 2) needed it that day).…