To be honest I really hope that Mother Earth okay with being busted in the vagine and bouncing back anyway because we are busting her something furious right now.

blyan - First off - sorry for the Freddy Montero chants. They were in bad taste. I regret participating.

'and fuzzily took advantage of the situation he allowed himself to be put in. To me, this doesn't make him a truly evil, despicable, worthless human being. It means he got too drunk, violated someone, and deserved to be punished for it.'

Serially repeating the sentiment "rape is horrible" as a qualifier before tortured attempts to explain away rape (and Occam's Razor) does not mitigate the overarching content of your posts any more than the disclaimer, "I'm not racist, but..." does.

It's extremely unlikely that someone would be so drunk as to have blacked out and yet would outwardly show no signs that would point a reasonable person to say "you know what, she's wasted, perhaps I shouldn't have sex with her." And furthermore, it's a pretty long stretch to believe that this woman was like "you…

You seem pretty sure that you know she was in any way conscious. And considering he lied to the police and said he hadn't been with her, it seems mighty likely that he figured she wasn't going to remember.

1. He claimed they had no sexual contact. Then, they found his jizz up her ass. Then, he claimed he had consensual sex.

Allow me to respond to your question with a question. If you blacked out and woke up with semen in your anus, what would you call that?

If she wakes up not remembering anything but puking, that's called rape. Also, this:

"DNA found in her hair, on her tank-top, and on an anal swab matched that of Lueke's, despite the fact that he'd said there was no physical contact between him and the victim. After his arrest, he changed his story, telling police they'd had consensual sex."

It should go without saying that if someone is too intoxicated to remember an event, they're also too intoxicated to consent.

Try re-reading this article, and then read the linked articles before you start asking admittedly stupid questions. It's all there. Why should anyone else do your homework for you?

I suspect that redemption requires one to acknowledge and apologize and make amends for the things in your past that require redemption.

Redemption doesn't mean pretending it didn't happen. Redemption is the fact that he's no longer in jail and is playing Major League Baseball. Redemption doesn't mean that people don't have the right to talk about it, and it certainly doesn't mean that somebody has the right to dictate whether other people talk about…

I hope she has a section on chemical burns.

The nuanced idea of media critique escapes you, doesn't it?

You can't get a show like this made for women. I know a fair amount about the industry and execs and networks do not want to put women in these roles, nor do they want to finance shows in which women are survivalists. The view is that the market they're trying to attract is men, and men would rather watch men do these…

I agree with you completely. Even assuming that book Cersei fully consented to the sex without any coercion, there is still the time when she was not willing to have sex with Jaime, where she pounded against him with feeble fists, where he did not care to listen to her unwillingness. That happened and subsequent…

Your time might be better spent simply being a decent male role model so that boys don't turn into rapey frat bros.

Also, being male gives you a slight advantage in this fight. Men are more likely to say rapey things around other men, and that gives you (and all other decent male-identified human beings) a unique…

Gary Larson had it figured out years ago, without the need for a scientific study.