I haven't watched the show, and I know all too well the extra bullshit heaped on rape victims. But my understanding of concerns are those of having a PTSD trigger occur. That happens with victims of other violent acts, too. It's not TV's responsibility to parent our children, or us, and we are provided with those DSLV…

I'm confused. Rape is horrible and causes PTSD sometimes. So is getting mugged, robbed, beaten, watch someone die in front if your eyes. All of this shit is on TV. Is a rape survivor's PTSD/sensitivity to triggers more important than any other victim of violence?

I dunno, in this economy this has become the default way my friends and I throw parties. My coast guard friend had a wetting down recently and we couldn't wrap our heads around the fact that she insisted we not. bring. anything. I'm not sure I would understand one of my friends being put off by contributing something…

It means you're a cool dude, and someone should be enjoying the fruits of that. In this case, it's you're wife!

I'll be sad about society if you are single, my friend.

That all sounds good! I'd be lying if I said I never thought about weight/appearances but I found out I have a lot less anxiety about fitness if I have my goals based on what my body can do, rather than what it looks like. The rest seems to all fall into place. I wish more people had that attitude, for themselves and…

Besides calling people on their shit (par example: I had to have a long discussion with my roommate after he repeatedly said fat women crying is gross, ughhhh) and minding my own attitude and behavior, what else can I do to change the attitudes?

I'm not going to lie, when I see a new and heavy gym goer, I usually think "Good for you!" FWIW, my bias/assumption is that people are at a gym to improve their quality of life, as that is my goal. But the reason I think that about those individuals is that I know that they are there against a lot of social norm bull…

Your typo cracks me up.

Do they kill the eagles? I was actually just in the Native American museum in DC yesterday and 15 eagle feathers were worth a horse in 1800. I feel like they must gather them off the ground for them to be THAT valuable, but IDK.

Atheist here. I don't personally consider a feathered headdress any more or less sacred or mystical than the pope hat, but I also wouldn't wear either. On top of that, white people kind of shit all over Native Americans. Is it really so hard to respect a simple request to not turn what they consider sacred into a…

Awesome!

Yes!

I can't figure out which kid is my favorite. Can they all be my favorite? I wore bunny ears last year, but that's cause I was a splicer from Bioshock.

Best profile pic.

Mine too! That and sexy dance fight...the capoeira one.

I LOVE THIS SHOW! And I have NO ONE to talk to about it. It bums me out, man.

It IS a second planet! The first one, from 2010, is called Wasp 12B. DIAMONDS 4 EVERYONE!

I know I heard about this like 2 years ago. Did they find a SECOND diamond planet? I can only find news sources from today about it, because I suck at internet.

As many others have said, I am pretty sure she meant "social norms be damned, if you like it then don't worry whether society says it's degrading, just do it," which incidentally is a pretty feminist statement to make. That being said, she clearly thinks it's okay to just keep trying to stick your finger up a guy's…