Excellent reference, Chrono.

I love everything about this outfit. This is magical.

THIS. I don’t really give a shit if someone feels bad for ghosting on someone. They should fucking feel bad - ghosting on someone is a shitty, spineless thing to do.

Well obviously.

Honestly, you’re the bemusing one here, not me. I’m looking over what I wrote and I just don’t see any comment where I said that it was okay to shame her for her looks. I did argue that the focus on her looks was due to the fact that she was dressing a certain way to lie about having African American heritage, which…

Suggesting that you are being intentionally obtuse is not a personal attack. I also suggested that you are not stupid, which you have decided is a personal attack as well. So I recant my previous statement since I gave you far too much credit.

You are being intentionally obtuse. I doubt you are so stupid as to purposefully misunderstand the implications of a woman pretending to be black calling her permed hair “natural.” Natural hair means something very different in black culture than it does in general American society.

She referred to her permed hair as “natural,” which falls under lies as well.

So what do we make of her faking hate crimes against herself? Is that just her “identifying” as black as well?

The problem is that the majority of her lies involved keeping up the deception that she is black when she is not. She didn’t just do her hair that way just because she liked it - she was trying to pass in a community that she does not belong to. Her whole appearance was set up as part of her deception, and that’s why…

Oh. My. God. That is an awful story.

My dad sang “You Shook Me All Night Long” at his wedding reception a few months ago. He fucking killed it as well. Easily the best part of the wedding.

My boyfriend made me stay on the phone with him when he had to put a suppository in. We’re both normally very private about our bodily functions, so this is kind of how the conversation went.

I do agree with you. I absolutely understand her frustration - why is a simple neck tattoo more tacky than a bear on drugs? But her approach of shaming the artist was not the right way to go about venting that frustration, especially when a no necks policy is really common.

Did you expect me to respond to you with any kind of respect when your initial response to me was completely condescending? You know absolutely nothing about me. You know nothing about my experience with tattoos. You made a hell of a lot of assumptions though.

No baby, the fact that you are several days late to the party and decided to stick your useless opinion in my thread struck a chord. Do you think you’ve made a particularly unique or interesting argument in regards to this debate? No, you haven’t. You haven’t said anything that a bunch of people more intelligent and…

Cry me a river you fucking whiner. I got done with this debate a while ago, and had some decent conversations with people far more thoughtful and intelligent than you. So how about you go take a seat?

Spot on advice. My boyfriend and I had only been dating for about two months before he was hit with a mystery illness that left him bedridden for a prolonged period of time. It was fucking difficult to deal with, and eight months later we are still together but still dealing with the damage that his illness caused to…

No. No one is saying that anyone should be forced to do something just because someone is waving money at them. I think tattoo artists should have their art respected, and as business owners should have the right to tattoo whomever they want.

Yes, but first you have to rub your cash in the bitchy salesperson’s face, a la Pretty Woman.