If you accept the proposition that being gay or lesbian is only about who you have sex with, then it's great. If you believe in the value of gay and lesbian culture, it's a Problem.

This is interesting. I'm bi but I don't know how to "label" myself in certain communities, especially because I mostly dig men so I pass as straight and that's how I'm most comfortable identifying. But OTHER people don't like knowing how I identify (i.e. lesbians). Some people need the label because they want to have…

At this point, Jeremy Irons, it would be wise to stop digging that hole, and slink away, and pray to all the gods that people will forget what an ignoranus you are.

Oh look, it's troll and troll lackey. Hello, basement dwellers!

But isn't this a sign that what we've been saying is reaching people? If men are speaking feminist and heteronorms are speaking queer and whites are speaking minority doesn't that mean that they've been listening and learning? I personally think it is great when messages like this have crept into the rest of society…

Sex positive feminists, like myself, who advocate legalisation are not unaware of the problems with sex "work" or how sex "work" is often (hence the quotes) not work at all but instead slavery or desperation. That said, if sex work isn't legal, then in situations like this, women not only are in a position to try to…

Yo, I have a BUNCH of questions about a three-night-stand that I can't ask anyone irl, so I'm just going to ask them here if that's okay. Here goes.

Three weeks ago, I was visiting a city 300+ miles away from my home. I met this guy at a club through mutual friends. I thought it was a one night stand, but then he asked…

So, here's the thing. We do need vitamin D. But 10-30 minutes is enough sun exposure for white people to generate it. Non white people need a bit more, basically the darker your skin is, the more you need, but topping out at around an hour I think.