IT WAS HIS FUCKING JOB. She did the cards for her people, he was supposed to do the cards for his. It was an explicit arrangement. And he was an irresponsible baby, just like every fucking overgrown man-child who thinks it’s okay to stick his female partner with his share of all the tedious feminized labor, knowing…

Am I terrible bridesmaid that I insist on not covering the Bride’s travel expenses for a destination bachelorette party? Like, I will literally either excuse myself from the trip or the wedding if I have to do that. Wedding or not, I think it is unconscionable to pick your own vacation and then expect other people to…

Did you come to my wedding? I’m sorry.

We shared thank you duties. I wrote the notes. He addressed & stamped the envelopes and mailed them.

I went to one wedding where we never received a thank-you card. We were still in college at the time, and not able to give much, but we went with a card and a gift, danced, gave a thoughtful card and never received a thank you. And this was a pretty expensive and glamorous-appearing wedding.

Yet another example of how women are socialized to have manners and men are socialized to believe that women will have manners for them.

My husband was the best man for a wedding across the country from us and he hosted the bachelor party in Vegas for a few guys. We were both unemployed at the time and the others were comparatively high rollers. My husband, being the overly generous person he is, was taken advantage of by some of the guys. Everyone…

My husband only wrote the ones he thought were absolutely essential of his people. I was super annoyed by it and he was sort of ‘meh’ about it. I think not writing a thank you note is soooo rude.

You should have reminded her before her second anniversary that brides have a year to write thank you notes for gifts given so if she wrote one ASAP she’d still be within the acceptable time period. Because that amount of awful requires some next-level snark in return.

I’m sorry, but what the fuck is the matter with that person? I hate that she did that to you.

WHAT THE FUCK. That is not acceptable behavior from a grown-ass adult man. What a fucking baby. It’s such horseshit that men won’t do their fair share with stuff like this and then women take the heat for it.

I get seriously rage-y when people don’t write thank you notes, especially for wedding presents.

Not thanking people for coming to your wedding, especially if they were nice enough to bring a gift, is so rude. Like, no, you’re not obligated to bring a gift, but if you do, the recipient is obligated to thank you for it.

This *gets* to me big time.

The agreement that I had with DH is that he would write the thank you notes for ‘his’ guests, and I would write the one for mine. I wasn’t going to have all that fall onto me. And he agreed.

I wrote all of my thank you notes basically day 1. DH didn’t write any.

My MIL started to get…

The opposite has happened to us. My husband was best man at a wedding in Manhattan. The bachelor party was in town here and my husband covered the groom’s hotel portion ($500!!!!!!!!) temporarily bc the groom couldn’t afford it. Ok, fine. Then we flew to NYC for 5 days, stayed in a hotel, went out with them, went to…

He needs a ghostwriter.

Aaaand so what. Is she trying to justify her Dad’s use of the n word?? Pish - good luck with that.

If that’s what she feels comfortable with admitting, imagine the thoughts she keeps to herself. HA HA HA, JK, she doesn’t have the connected brain cells necessary to create ‘thoughts’!

That Brooke Hogan smells like balogna is something I not only believe, it is now the hill I will lie down and die on if called upon to do so.

This was a missed opportunity to talk about the problem of the gender binary. While it is FANTASTIC that people are finally more aware and accepting of transgender people, we’re still failing to recognize the problems inherent in imposing a rigid binary, instead of recognizing a spectrum where most people fall more…