That’s some cold lotion, my friend.

First, you should have used “its” instead of “it’s.” The apostrophe denotes the contraction of “it is.” Second, the idiom is “see the forest for the trees” not “forest through the trees.” I don’t usually correct people on this, but you seem nice, and this is the sort of stuff people should learn about in a forum that…

It’s cute that you think that has NOTHING to do with embarrassing her. If you can’t see how you’re reacting with emotion rather than logic, then I feel for ya.

I dunno, some of these questions are ridiculous and I’d refuse to answer them too. Like asking “whether she viewed her husband’s behavior as dishonest and a violation of their marriage vows.” I wouldn’t answer that. You could ask me if I knew that he had drugged women quaaludes. You could ask me why I didn’t go to the…