This might not even make it to the main page, but I'm gonna try anyway. Anyone who knows anything about dating and the mixed signals people send, please help. I am so confused!

Good luck!!

Great advice. I'm glad I'm not the only one (not that I wish this on anyone else) but it does feel reassuring that I'm not overreacting. I'm going to try to be gentle with myself.

Yeah, I am thinking, 'Holy shit, I really am alone.' I guess I felt alone in my last relationship because it was long distance and I became a bar prep/law school widow this past year. Then this guy came and totally swept me off of my feet intellectually, sexually, etc. And he lives in my same city which spoiled me…

Who the fuck knew you could be so heartbroken after dating someone for THREE MONTHS?!! What in the actual fuck? I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years early this summer and it was less painful than what I am experiencing now. Maybe because it was a slow death whereas me and boy #2 were still in our honeymoon stage…

I need SUCCESS STORIES ladies and gentleman. I HATE my job. I am a teacher and I can't handle the stress any longer. Not to mention my health has been deteriorating and this job, the hours, the stress, aren't factors that are helping. I may have to take a pay cut for a short period of time (not that I was making a ton…

Okay GT, I've been waiting all day to share this and I need fierce women's opinions. Boy issues. Aren't they always?

So sorry I am replying so late. My CouchSurfing experiences were pretty awesome for the most part. All of my hosts were awesome in their own ways. Some cooked, had food available, or took me out for drinks/food which helped tremendously with the costs. I contacted my first host before I got to Paris, but then the rest…

Well, this summer I did a backpacking trip around Europe. I bought a EuRail Global Pass that gave me train access to several countries. Then, I mitigated costs by participating in CouchSurfing which turned out to be AWESOME! I stayed in a few hostels, but I found CouchSurfing to be a much better experience. I packed…

Please send the link for this GIF!! Please!

I forgot what I was about to post because I was so disturbed by that American Horror Story Coven ad to my right. Is it a bit over-the-top for anyone else?

What were dates 1 and 2 like? 'Cause, WTF? Lol

Lol, I'm really trying to figure out what he meant by that. Does he turn himself on when he speaks? Does he play an audio file while having sex? In any case, that's funny stuff.

Does anyone have any OkCupid! success stories? I think they would be pretty fun to hear about :)

Happy Saturday Folks! I have something that is REALLY bothering me; some people may find it petty but it really bothers me and I don't know how to address it.

Random question:

i'm glad i didn't. looks friggin weird!

If anyone gives you advice, PLEASE pass it along to me. I'm in the same sorta funk

Hey guys, I'm thinking about getting a nose ring. A thin nose ring on the side. Here's a picture of me, what do you think? I'm really nervous but I've always wanted one!

Hey fine people!