Well 1 year is not really as young to introduce new food as suggested. I gave peanut butter in the 2nd week of solid foods at 6 months to our son, then again... allergies don’t really run in our families, so maybe we were fortunate.

I can and did, but it ultimately left me with my conclusion that you try to have it all. As others pointed out, this will eventually lead to you not having anything. Maybe you can’t be a supermom, super daughter-in-law and a career woman? Maybe your husband can’t work 12-14 hours a day and demand from you to fix the…

This article applies perfectly to your situation, how about cutting it down to the necessities, explaining your husband that he should do the same and then check again? Maybe your lifestyle is just not fit for the situation? In the end it is all about prioritization!