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I agree her lyrics are quite...unprogressive, to say the least. I recall one line that goes "I'm in his favorite sundress". Like, HIS favorite sundress, not MY favorite sundress. Why-y? But for some reason I still love her music. It's the way it sounds, not what it's actually saying, for the most part (although there

That is awesome. I have anxiety issues that make the idea of not having immediate access to a washroom if I need it very stressful, so these photos look amazing to me as a woman, but terrifying as a human. I would not want to be in any of those guys' shoes!

Between this and Sansa's Mockingjay dress in Game of Thrones this feels like the best few fashion days ever.

On the other hand, aside from the obvious problem regarding where to store one's keys, why not walk around naked?

What's wrong with dressing how you want in the workplace? Do you, personally, do your job better or worse based on what you're wearing that day? Do you do your job better or worse based on what other people around you are wearing?

I think you are putting too much faith in adults (and bloggers) with the assumption that any more than a tiny smidgen of the criticism she receives on blogs is "constructive".

It is necessary. And too often certain things are not taught, and all that does is lead to ignorance later in life. I learned what blackface was at the age of 18 when a blackface scandal occurred at my college. At the time I genuinely couldn't understand what the big deal was about someone painting their face for

By making this comment you are doing the exact same thing you are attempting to criticize.

My parents had a secret marriage (long story) so never had any kind of wedding rings. They're still together after several decades.

I love her, but yes, you are right. But to me it just adds to her whole 'passionate and kinda weird' persona and makes me love her more.

To me it just looks like someone decided to make the female version of Limitless. And while, you know, I am 100% in favor of Hollywood making female versions of things, couldn't they have picked something more interesting to copy? Like, I don't know, James Bond? I would totally watch the female James Bond.

I think you are so right about all this. Especially the internalization of guilt and shame. I catch myself doing it all the time, with thoughts like "No! You can't think that! That's wrong!" But my mind is kind of predisposed to turn things over and question them, and for some reason this is especially true of those

They also congregate on IMDB. (Please don't ask how I know this.)

My head went immediately to sports and beer. I guess my head thinks only men are straight.

I've received a lifetime's worth of messages about how I'm not doing feminism right, from both mainstream and niche varieties, and it just makes me not want to really try to be Feminist anymore, but just try to be myself and work towards my vision of equality.

Maybe it's just me but back in the day she always seemed like the least messed up of her 'circle'. I'm kind of surprised she is suddenly popping up in the news again though.

Same. 0_0 When he kissed Sansa my brain was like "WTF. Why are you finding this so hot? You should not be finding this hot!!"

It's not a problem to learn what they think. It's a problem to accept their thoughts as fact.

I think a big issue is how it is taught in schools. We teach kids that slavery happened and that it's bad to use racial slurs or bully someone because of their race. We don't teach them about the small things that are stacked against minorities through their lives. There is a lack of nuance in racism education. I

I'm glad he did, too. I am such a fan of his directing style but it seems like when it comes to the big male Hollywood directors, most of them have some serious sexism going on. I'm glad he recognized his error and fixed it. Hopefully others can learn and grow in this way as well.