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Hey, welcome to the life of an Asian guy! If we're not that attractive, then we might as well be leper morlocks. If we're hot, then we're deemed good enough to be considered as attractive as average white guys.

You mean repackaging everything that happens in the world through my (very limited) perspective isn't interesting or helpful?

Oh, the articles that get into evo psych are always my faves for comments.

I don't see how it can produce anything worthwhile even when I happen to agree with it. Ugh.

This is why I roll my eyes every time I hear some centrist-ass Jon Stewart type smirk about how Fox and MSNBC are two sides of the same credibility-free coin. I readily admit MSNBC has plenty of loud dicks who are clearly only there out of some misguided need to beat Fox at the game they invented, but there is no

Their MLK day white sale special is going to be EPIC.

I totally agree with this. As a black woman, I feel like the most harsh and nit-picky judgements of the appearances of black women (usually hair related) come from other black women.

I disagree with a side premise of this argument RE: men can be anything, men are not ornamental, etc. I hate to throw the word "heterocentric" around because it's a pretty extreme term. But gay men are expected to be beautiful and eternally youthful by our own allies. The reasons for it are complicated. A lot more

If there hadn't been literally MONTHS of critiques from WOC about this topic, much of it directed at this very website by its OWN COMMENTERS, MAYBE Tracy could get away with that explanation.

I hear this a lot, but as a woman who's been conventionally unattractive all my life, and who developed very early, I've had strange men shouting hateful shit about how ugly I am and how dare I pollute the world by existing since I was nine years old. Women haven't always been nice, by any means, but the aggressive

That also made me side eye...like, if the point was that ugly sexuality is something that should get praise, then that is interesting. But to connect ugly sexuality to Miley Cyrus's twerking is all kinds of problematic. When I think of someone who does ugly sexuality I think of Lady Gaga, not Miley Cyrus.

Yes, every Hispanic person grows up eating tacos. As a Colombian I fucking eat tacos every day. That's what we do, we eat tacos for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Hell my mid day snack is a goddamn burrito sprinkled with some coke, because you know that's how we Hispanics do.

Not to (self) stereotype, but the Sunday night football game was on an hour weather delay.

It's more like GTA IV's story, if you've ever played that game. It's the story of you and a city- of you trying to get by, and getting involved in a lot of nasty stuff along the way. It's more character driven.

I appreciate your perspective, although I wouldn't lump it in with all guys. I get where you are coming from, but here is what I have to say to you about it. You are wrong.

Haha OMG! My sister and I were talking about how, without fail, EVERY SINGLE blacksmith in a fantasy setting is hot hot hot. They're like the Magic Mikes of medieval fantasy.

OR an article giving men advice on not misconstruing normal politeness or pleasantness as romantic interest.

Haha, my grandmother is the first and only person I've ever heard utter the phrase "whore's bath" (which she would actually use in polite conversation, such as "We're in a hurry young Mo23, don't take a shower, just take a whore's bath!") Also, she taught my brother and I to play poker and how to make a drink so you

You can only discourage a guy who is overt. Most guys leave some kind of plausible deniability. If you firmly tell them to stop hitting on you, they say they never were and you should be so lucky. :/

How Not To Act All Skanky In Your Tie And Your Business Clothes, Figure 1.1: