nah bro. fall is da best. fuckin best apples ever, beautiful sunny skies and crisp air..gtfo wit dis shit.

I had this transparency discussion with someone the other day. She insisted that having anything “private” (i.e. journals, conversations, texts) from your partner was an indication that you were hiding something. The mandate of complete transparency and that “radical honesty” bullshit are so suffocating. I can’t…

Yeah, people really get deluded into thinking that both parties’ “truths” have to be laid bare for one another to have a real bond, but I have found having discussions about these things (stuff that one partner has accepted and can happily live with for the most part even if it isn’t perfect) is simply sabotage. There…

Absolutely. First of all, she’s asking him to separate her body from her whole person and evaluate it independently. That’s a bad idea. I also don’t like my husband’s feet, but I integrate them in the whole person, and I’m attracted to the whole person, so I don’t mind them. Judging individual parts is ridiculous and…