Because the feds probably have a file on BLM activists too.

Right, the answer is to not be mediocre. In the past when anyone who wasn’t male and white weren’t considered for most jobs at all, there wasn’t much competition. All of us who aren’t white and male learned we had to work extra hard if we wanted a “non-traditional” job. While my white male friends were getting high in…

I was a little hesitant about wading into the comments too, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised by how reasonable and anti- grown men dating teenagers they are.

I didn’t even click on it, I already know what I’ll see.

Didn’t Georgia lawmakers also notice that he’s thick as two planks? This video left me in awe. That a US politician felt fine saying the n-word on camera no longer shocks me, but I was completely in awe of his stupidity before we even got to the up-skirt pic.

But here it’s an inexcusable word that almost nobody uses in public, ever, whereas in the UK it’s more on par with “fuck”.

I think I’ll get expelled from Canadia if I say c*nt ;) It’s a very very very Bad Word here. But I’ll have to try out fanny baws

My friend has a mental illness and was taking meds that can cause hair loss, so it took longer for her docs to figure out she also has hypothyroidism, but she really perked up once it was treated. She’d been sleeping a lot and had more depressive symptoms than usual, and that got better pretty quickly too. She found…

Oh, that’s a great insult! Is it pronounced with a long or short u?

Well... if that didn’t end up in the audit report and your board didn’t do anything about, I’m not sure where else you’d go with this, unless she has physically assaulted anyone. Anyway, good for you for getting the fuck out. I kind of wish I’d got some counselling after my own workplace from hell experience. That…

Sadly, get used to that feeling, because it doesn’t stop after conception... :P

Trusted pet sitter!

My bff lost so much hair before she was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and her hair stopped falling out immediately after she started treatment and less than 6 months later, you couldn’t even tell, so it might be sooner than you think. In fact, once she was able to get in cut, it looked fine, and that was within weeks.…

this is probably a silly question, but does your workplace have an HR dept?

Did you have a Karate Kid phase too? I must’ve driven my parents crazy with my “stork” high kicks, and they didn’t even get a car wash out of it.

This too shall pass, and then you will be in your new tenure track job, settled into your new apartment. I went through the Summer of Debt too when I had to set up my first household on my own, cobble together a work wardrobe and find first and last for my new apartment, and my job, like your’s, didn’t begin until…

Thanks for the app recommendations. I’ve been having trouble getting things done (important things, things that I will feel better about once they are complete, but that right now are making me hyperventilate) and those sound really helpful. Any meditations you like in particular? I have some from UCLA bookmarked.

I love 20/10s! Are you and your mom also Unf*ck your Habitat fans? I swear that site changed my life with the advice on how to deal with my anxiety/ procrastination in getting shit done.

Yum!

I hope it looks up soon. The greyest part of winter is always the worst. In this hemisphere, it’s those six weeks from February until well into March that are slushy and damp and sun-deprived... and I live in a country with central heat, even in the bedrooms.