That is incredibly draining in every way. Have the two of you decided when to officially stop seeking treatment? I also wanted to add to my original comment to try to set up certain terms for those around you to allow you to grieve in your own way and not to add their grief on to you. I think people try to help in any…

I am so terribly sorry for you and your husband. 30 is entirely too young. I think the sudden prognosis is very overwhelming and difficult to feel in control of anything. If you haven’t already and it doesn’t seem too much of a burden (emotionally, physically, financially) you may want to seek a second opinion and…

I don’t know if anyone has been following the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act and what that means for graduate students but it will basically tax graduate students not only on stipends but on the cost of tuition (even if tuition is being paid by the university). As it is, let’s say you get a $30,000 stipend doing research and…

That rule (tattoos are problematic in MRI machines) is mostly for tattoos done in parlors before 1972 or home/prison tattoos. Justin’s tattoos would not likely cause any issues.

I know it’s not cool to admit to watching KUWTK but... Kris never seemed happy to be with Corey. He was clearly very kind and loving to her, but she always seemed ‘meh’ towards him.

Almost a decade ago, I was at a dinner party hosted by a friend’s parents. One of their guests was a gay man who was very involved in the gay Hollywood scene, especially closeted gay men. Unprovoked, he told a story involving Tim Allen. Apparently, he’s either bisexual or gay (depending on opinions of having children…

He’s not straight.

If it isn’t too much of a task, could you and the other woman of your team reinforce the credit you are all doing in front of the higher ups? For example, one of you could just state: “X has been doing a really great job lately, it’s hard not to notice how tirelessly she works.” And then she would do the same for you,…

Hot take: John Oliver is aging well.

I’ve been watching a lot of The Golden Girls and I wish to be transported back in time to the late 1980s Miami. Well, maybe just the fictional version.

I’m sorry to hear you went through all of that. The emotions alone for someone you used to love dying is terrible enough, let alone the weird romantic narrative. Some people feel like another’s life isn’t complete without the romantic aspect, especially some parents. It may help them now, but be careful that they…

Have you tried Poshmark? They do have new items for sale as well as gently used. You may be able to negotiate a price too.

Officially didn’t get into any grad schools. :( It oddly brought up a lot of resentment I have for my family, especially the complete lack of support (and at times active discouragement) of pursuing a higher degree in the sciences. Feeling isolated and need good movie recommendations to get out of this funk. Currently…

I am currently marathoning the Golden Girls on Hulu and I found out there is a Rue McClanahan themed cafe in NYC! I went today and it’s so cute. There are pictures and memorabilia all over the walls and Golden Girls episodes playing while you eat. Very fun. It’s called Rue La Rue cafe if anyone is interested.  

Romance opinions needed:

This is exactly right. If I start too late in the day, it’s like I let the monster out from under the bed. It’s almost like I need to be a type A person but want to live the type B life, if that makes sense. But thank you, this is exactly how I feel.

Yes, I probably should get my hormones tested, my skin has been acting up as well. Also, I have been trying the goals thing with mixed results. Today was 4 items. 1.5 of them are complete. I suppose I should go work on that now and get off of Jezebel. Thank you for answering!

The only thing you can do now is stand by your decision. I’m sure he is grateful you gave him this opportunity (and, honestly, good on you for not succumbing to stigmas) and he should hopefully prove to be a valuable asset.

Same! I always seem to miss it and last week it was posted late. Plus I always seem to get locked out of my burners. Enjoy your night!!

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