In terms of anger management, I’ve found how someone drives to be a good indicator of their ability to keep things under control off the road.

1. Negging and backhanded compliments. That’s an instant sign that they’re trying to gain the upper hand by trying to break down my self-esteem, and a pretty good red flag for a potential emotionally abusive relationship.

2. Focusing on the negative. That sort of thing gets old fast, drags you down emotionally over…

How they relate to people in our vicinity. If someone says something rude or mocks someone at a nearby table or that we see while walking - it makes me really worry about any future with them. I once went on a date with a girl who was doing, what I could only assume she thought was witty commentary on the people…