There are so many problematic things about this article. First of all, you are not a therapist, and should never give advise about something as nuanced and complicated as domestic violence. Period. It’s just beyond irresponsible. But hey, you’re a “guy telling it like it is,” so I guess that makes up for a masters…

Thank you for the thoughtful essay. I have been single for all of my adult life. Short-lived relationships here and there, but nothing more than a few months. I have wonderful relationships with people at work, close friends who would drop everything to be there for me, and even sweet relationships with my parents,…

I had a brief interaction with Jeffrey Tambor a few years ago. I was standing in line waiting to get into CBS Radford Studio for an audition, when he pulled up across from me in his Prius (at this studio, visitors form a line on one side of the guard gate, and employees on the opposite side). He said to me, totally…

Thank you for keeping this story alive. The City of WeHo is so corrupt with White power, it’s insane. There is no election of the Mayor—instead the position is voted on by the City Council. It’s just a revolving door of power and money and dirty politics. I briefly worked on a contract for them, and I have to tell…

I believe his accuser. George Takei is an asshole, and does not deserve the mountain of praise he receives here. I had the misfortune of serving him at a restaurant in Hollywood in the early aughts. The first time he came into the restaurant, he and his husband didn’t have a reservation, and we were full. He huffed…

Is it just me, or...

Two words for this ass clown’s “apology”: spiritual bypass.

“...the dangers of alcohol consumption and sexual promiscuity.” THAT’S his take away from this? Like, what in the actual fuck?! I suppose it shouldn’t surprise me. Apples don’t fall far. Nice job, dad...

I’ve had it with VW. Last year, I traded in my awesome 2012 GTI (which had no issues for three years) for a 2015. Got a good deal, but I have to say I regretted it from the first week. Not only was Santa Monica VW a nightmare to deal with, but the new GTI is cheap as hell compared to the MKVI. Infotainment is terrible…

You got robbed. I had LASIK 13 years ago and paid $1,500. Still don’t need glasses or contacts. A co-worker of mine had the procedure the same week as I did and paid $5,000 because she had it done in Beverly Hills. I did mine at Laser Eye Center in downtown LA and had a really great experience.

I did a guest star on Grey’s the year after Heigl left the show. The crew resoundingly hated her. Apparently, a total diva, and not in a good way. They joked about her several times during the course of my episode.

Hey Kara,

That’s awesome! Big congratulations to you! :-)

I am a man, but yes, you are absolutely right!

Thanks. I’m glad you got out too. :-)

Oh yeah, the dating pool is saturated with emotionally unstable individuals. I hope you were able to escape unscathed.

OY, this simultaneously breaks my heart and scares the shit out of me. I just broke it off with a guy I was seeing for three weeks. He was ready to dive in to a relationship with me, and every fiber of my being said “get the fuck away from him,” in the form of horrific anxiety. So, I listened to my body.