for sure. it will take a lot for me to believe their bro-ey "don't worry about it, man, i'm sure you did nothing wrong" camaraderie has *anything* to do with how much they like & empathize with men of colour.

i totally understand what you're saying. i first read about the idea of white women purity being used as an excuse by white men to attack men of colour from female writers of colour, and i still tend to read and believe them, especially in the context of those same men usually not giving a shit about attacks on women…

actually i don't think life is conferred upon exiting the womb. the Roe vs Wade threshold of viability is good enough for me, in terms of conferring personhood. "life" itself is a much bigger concept overall. i wasn't trolling when i said i see life in sperm dancing & moving around.

i sleep fine, thank you. the real question is: how do you sleep at night, letting all these "potential child" murders take place by the millions? if you think grape sized children are being killed daily, don't you have some moral imperative to stop it? from your own logic, how can you not be for outlawing abortion?…

here's a video of some sperm moving around:
https://www.youtube.com/wat…

i'm not mad at Joshua & I've been a fan of his writing ever since i read his Tyler Perry article a couple of years back. i think i did my best to phrase my criticism as fairly as possible, as a problem of common language usage, not as personal ideology on his part.

now that Britta is gone, i'm glad i can go back to ignoring this show again.