But if you acknowledge that some fantasies are merely about giving up power, then you know they are not all about violence against women and that it’s nuanced

That is quite an assumption about someone else’s turn-ons. Some of the women I have known who were into that type of video often came from repressed backgrounds, which is not uncommon. It represents a way have having the pleasure without giving consent, which is “wrong outside of marriage.” To others it was about…

I believe that many lawyers is known as a coven

I had a girlfriend in high school whose INCREDIBLY vain and image conscious mom had been into pageants and put her in them from a really young age, and who never forgave her for quitting them when she became old enough to decide for herself. Her awful mom used to tell her it’s because she knew she wasn’t pretty enough…

There are certain phrases someone can use that let you know you are dealing with is a complete asshole, “grass on the field” is definitely one of them

What is happening with BCO?

You are right about the small pool. If you want to give people a shocking history lesson, make them learn about the people that streets and cities and other landmarks are named after. This guy helped found this city...by “clearing” the Native population. This man helped develop mental health and female-care…

I think it’s about the fact that change happens in increments. No one could reasonably expect complete change over night, but a university building here, a street and park, or say racial slur team-name there, pretty soon something is being accomplished

Your argument is ridiculous, that people should have to put up with being treated badly just to receive an (arguably) excellent education. That’s like saying I can go kick the intern in the other room on a daily basis and he should just take it, because staying in the office and putting up with my daily kicking helps…

That is the damn point. No one is saying we want people with ONE viewpoint, we want people with VARIED viewpoints

Or if you, you know, look at the student population, the faculty make-up, their on-campus institutions, the themes of many of the events taking place on campus, the way they handle incidents, the people their bulidings and schools are named after...wow it is easy to think of examples

Attention idiot poster: students shouldn’t be asked to just shut up and take awful treatment just because it will pay off for them in the long run. No one should, and unfortunately it’s a calculation far too many have been forced to make for far too long

White student cultural center? Pretty sure Yale and the rest of the ivies already qualify as such

I thought they got raised in the same abusive houshold, didn’t Merle at one point tell Darryl he didn’t realize he got it as bad as he had?

You are dreaming if you think South Carolina and Texas would be up for grabs. Even if Hilary chooses a Castro bro as running mate, which I think is likely, she doesn’t have a shot at Texas

It did make it hard to continue to work as closely and mentor her (I still suspect her interest in me was largely because of that), since it isn’t like she didn’t know I was married. I started to get paranoid and over-analyze our interactions, like she occasionally rubbed my shoulder or hugged me over a success.
Yes,…

YES!! So it’s the second week Guardians was out and it’s a given that this will be a date night movie. I have an aaaawful day at work and get a few drinks with a good female friend who works nearby and also was having a crappy day, and we decide to lift our spirits by playing hooky at our respective jobs and catching…

I trust her judgement, the thing is that the office we were in was almost all older men who were kind of “old fashioned” (that’s the nice way of saying sexist, right?) in their views of women’s role in the office. We poached her from another office because she was good and they still acted like she was an intern, so I…

There is such a thing as being oblivious. My wife used to warn me about a female workplace proximity associate who I frequently had drinks with to decompress and strategize for the following day. She used to tell me the woman had a thing for me and I thought she was imagining it since, among other reasons, the woman…

I think it just comes down to how much you trust your partner. Last year for the first time in a while I didn’t join my wife at her office Christmas party, because fuck office Christmas parties, and a male co-worker drunkenly confessed feelings and semi-made a move on her. She shut him down and told me about it that…